Have you ever noticed that when you are loved,really loved and desired and told so how your whole life is made better and life seems to have little or no problems your whole existance is enhanced
2006-09-06 17:30:38 · 6 answers · asked by Vivian X 3 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
ten mins now ...what no one out there is loved.....
2006-09-06 17:40:36 · update #1
only two answers first half hour ...is this question to hard to answer for you why ?
2006-09-06 18:08:13 · update #2
I think one of the elements of human nature is to seek acceptance and love. I think it's like that with all animals. I mean EVERYone wants to be loved and cared for, and those who say they don't are in denial and/or have had some serious issues during their life that has caused them to be so withdrawn. With those kinds of people you'll notice that they're depressed or have even acquired a mental illness such as clinical depression. They think they're worthless, they're cynical, have poor self-esteem etc.
and what happens when you have poor self esteem? you tend not to do things out of fear that you''ll fail or make a fool of yourself. This is no fun, you have no motivation for anything and because of this things tend to go 'bad'. You begin to notice all your problems and you think they can't be solved, you even MAKE MORE problems for yourself.
But if someone loves you and you're accepted, things look so much brighter because you have that external support, increased self worth/esteem, and previous problems aren't so problematic anymore - they'\re also easier to deal with. Humans are social creatures and need the support of their peers.
2006-09-06 18:13:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Okay, I don't believe this to be the case. A person can be loved, desired, anything you can think of & if they don't love themselves first they cannot truly feel the love coming from another person.
2006-09-07 01:17:19 · answer #2 · answered by Ivyvine 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are right. Everyone benefits from love, respect, and desire. No matter what obstacles are in the way seem much easier.
2006-09-07 00:42:42 · answer #3 · answered by m15 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know what you talk about cause my sweetheart really loves me and everything seems to be magic and wonderful we´re really happy together and our love can overcome everything . Love really changes your life.
2006-09-07 12:02:17 · answer #4 · answered by free3rhymes 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your right. and thoughs out their not feeling or being loved thats all they want is to be loved........... and i love being loved
2006-09-07 02:29:15 · answer #5 · answered by Ozark American 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
crazy huh? i have to agree though cuz when we good, im good. When we aint good, I aint good
2006-09-07 00:49:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋