guys iam a guy with many talents,but hidden inside me ,if i try i will do. \understand right\ eg\ iam good in playing pool ,but when i play with a big shot (rich guy) i loose,and i have many talents but somthin is holding me back, how can i come through this.......
friends iam serious pls dont hurt me more!!!
2006-09-06 16:40:55 · 6 answers · asked by POLO 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You may have some feelings of inseurities inside you which prevent you from giving your best in every thing that you do. Don't allow that to sink into your being for your inferiority complex will make a loser out of you.
Just like in playing pool where you are good at, don't think about your opponent's financial status or position or rank in life. Just think of him right at that moment as an opponent equal to you in every aspect of the word "man". Remember, all men are created equal. You have qualities that others don't have and that's your advantage over them. Vice versa meaning others have other qualities or things that you don't possess, and that's their advantage over you. But no one is perfect and you should put that in your mind all the time.
So the next time that you play, give your best shots and try to excel in that field. About other things, just think of all your good qualities and make them put your self-confidence and trust in yourself. With that, you will be able to show the world your many talents that are just waiting for you to free them inside you.
Be confident. Feel confident about yourself. And with that... you will never go wrong.
2006-09-06 16:49:46 · answer #1 · answered by Ruzzo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, you are saying these good things about yourself, you have many talents, playing well at pool and all. But do you believe in them and your self? Self confidence is what sounds like is missing. Start yelling yourself about all your great talents, give yourself pats on the back when you prove those talents. Even if at first you are proving them to your self, You can do it, more and more, you will feel and have the confidence in yourself to prove to other people.
If say you lose at pool sometimes to another, that is still okay. Because You tried. Trying is a great achievement alot of people don't accomplish, why? because of no self confidence. Remember you are worth trying out your talents in front of others. Remember you are still worth the same if you lose, because now you are worth learning your mistakes, and learning how to get better.
I like what the first girl who answered you said, and I think you should take her advise and tell yourself that every morning, every night, and every time you have these self doubt thoughts in your head.
2006-09-06 23:51:29 · answer #2 · answered by Angel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as though you're lacking in self confidence. It's important to develop this, so your hidden talents can come out of hiding. The reason you lose at pool is because you're intimidated by someone you feel is better than you. It's what's known as a self-fulfilling prophecy. You're actually afraid of losing, and so you do. If you were playing with someone who wasn't as good as you, you'd probably win. So you have to fool yourself a little bit. Next time you're paired up with a super stud player, try and pretend that he's just a loser, and you're showing him how. I'll bet you'll win with that mindset. In other words, put your best foot forward and don't let anyone else trip you up. And even if you do lose sometimes, don't let it devastate you. Just try harder next time. Nobody wins all the time, but you'll be a winner to yourself if you just let yourself go and enjoy doing whatever it is you know you're good at. Best of luck to you!
2006-09-06 23:50:34 · answer #3 · answered by gldjns 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a sensitive person. But somehow you got the feeling that a "rich" guy is better than you. Why? Because he's rich? Because he acts like a big shot? You know what I've found, the louder a person is,the more insecure they are. So, if he's flaunting his money or acting like a big shot, he's probably more insecure than you. When you play him, relax, kid around, don't let him know he's getting to you. Cause when he gets to you --- you lose. Good luck!!
2006-09-06 23:48:07 · answer #4 · answered by techmom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a trainer
2006-09-06 23:43:54 · answer #5 · answered by Lady G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think i can..... I think I can....... I know I can........ I know i can....... just repeat these words as often during the day as you need......... God bless
2006-09-06 23:42:32 · answer #6 · answered by Annie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋