.....how did you learn your spouse was cheating? I'm amazed at the number of people here who are aware of their spouses being (or having been) unfaithful. I've never cheated, but if I were to do so, I would think I'd take every precaution humanly possible to be certain no one find out. Are these cheating spouses just very reckless?
2006-09-06 16:35:25 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I opened the credit card bill (which was something I dont normally do) and saw the charges to the porn and dating sites. Then two days later I opened the cell phone bill and saw where he was calling her everynite and talking to her before he would call me. He also called her the nite I was in the hospital having our daughter....I will never know what made me open that bill, at the time, I thought our marriage was great!
2006-09-06 16:39:46 · answer #1 · answered by whiskeygrl319 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-09-07 04:24:28 · answer #2 · answered by internetoptimiser 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was suspicious when my ex cheated on me but was in denial because he lied so much. I would check his phone messages and there was nothing there. He would spend time after work saying he was drinking with buddies. Then all of the sudden he tells me to leave the house it was his parents house and we were renting it. He told me I turned him off from women and there has not been no other woman in his life. After I left with our two year old son I went back to get a few things. I decided to grab the telephone and I plugged it in and hit the last number dial-ed. To not much of a surprise wha la there was the other woman. I think things happen for a reason. I was very unhappy and depressed when I was married to him. It was a blessing he cheated on me. It made me a stronger person.
2006-09-06 23:43:09 · answer #3 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will know your spouse cheats on you because he or she is not the same person you married before I mean she or he is a changed person , it is very plain to see there is no sweetness and uncaring and most of the time he or she is not around the house most of the time he or she will just disappear without any valid reason. You said you never been cheated. are u sure?
2006-09-06 23:47:53 · answer #4 · answered by dtmc542006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cheating spouses are always reckless, they do not think of the consequences of their actions until it is too late.
i found out about mine because her paychecks did not add up to what she was supposedly working, after a little investigation i found out the whole mess and dropped her, she has been wanting to come back ever since but i don't even talk to her anymore
2006-09-06 23:41:41 · answer #5 · answered by zether 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My spouse got busted in my house doing it. Stupidly I agreed to work full time while he went to school and raised our three kids, well lets just say our kids weren't the only thing he was tending to. My oldest told on him. I tried to make it work after that but .. all i saw was him with the girl so he was very swiftly out the door on his butt.
2006-09-06 23:44:31 · answer #6 · answered by Dreamy J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me It was women's intuition. He was different I just didn't know how until I found out. I was in denial until i confided in a friend of ours and then her boyfriend told me what I had already known. He covered his tracks and was a very good liar or it was that I had put to much trust in him that I didn't even realize he was lying to me. I didn't want to believe he would do it. I do find it difficult to trust like that anymore. Good Luck
2006-09-07 00:27:36 · answer #7 · answered by happy_cute_mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was married to a guy when I was in the Army (big mistake) we are divorced now. When I went to the field one time he hooked up with one of my co-workers wives, so while we were in the field for 2 weeks she was living in my house. When I came home there was make-up on my bathroom counter. It was so obvious it was left there for me to see. The gal was so stupid, she brought her 2 month old baby over to my house and was living there with my husband while I was gone. Tells you what kind of woman she was! Total trailer trash!
2006-09-06 23:52:17 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She logged onto my computer and and instant message prompt popped up from passion.com at a later time when I was using my computer. Wouldn't have happened if her kids hadn't been too selfish to let her use her own computer (which I paid for, by the way ...)
2006-09-07 03:10:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I looked at him one morning and I new he was cheating on me. He looked like a new man. He had this glow about him, and I looked and felt like s**t. He was very good at covering his tracks but the eyes don't lie. If your man can't look you in the eyes, you need to wake up. You don't need proof to know what is true in your heart.
2006-09-06 23:47:21 · answer #10 · answered by Joy! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋