2006-09-06 16:28:20 · 15 answers · asked by hot&sexyman30 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
because you cant rush a relationship if you want it to last. Love takes time
2006-09-06 16:30:13 · answer #1 · answered by Michelle : 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because usually when woman rush into things too soon into a relationship it seems like the man suddenly starts backing away now that he has gotten what he wants out of the relationship....
I think women have learned through experience that it is better to make you guys wait so that they can see if you actually want a real relationship or if you are just in it for the sex.
2006-09-07 00:29:20 · answer #2 · answered by Cute But Evil 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now days women are so scared of serious relationships cause they don't want to get hurt it's nothing against you she just doesn't want to get hurt things will be alright
2006-09-07 00:08:47 · answer #3 · answered by blondeqtwitanicebooty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, not all women are the same, it depends on their experiences and past. Second, when you say "serious" that could mean a lot of things. It could mean physically intimate... meaning that the woman is taking a lot of risks with someone she may not emotionally trust yet. It could mean emotionally serious, and that usually stems from bad past experiences. Or it could mean commitment serious, and once again, that usually stems from negative experiences.
Good luck!
2006-09-06 23:31:44 · answer #4 · answered by thoughtfulwind 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait a min i thought guys thought that females were always to clingy and wanted to get serious too soon?? The times must be changing?
2006-09-06 23:30:44 · answer #5 · answered by Emma G 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think they're scared, but I think they think more on it than a man. We men just jump into some relationships in which we want to bail out after 3 dates.
2006-09-06 23:31:29 · answer #6 · answered by Roberto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They'll get serious pretty quick unless you're not quite what they're looking for... Most women will throw caution to the wind if there is REAL attraction. They don't like it... But, they know it's true... LOL
2006-09-06 23:30:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not all of us are, and if we are, it might be cuz we got hurt before and we need to make sure we can trust you not to break our hearts again the way the last guy did. u gotta be patient sometimes w/ a grl like that. i know, i am one. i mean, im not afraid 2 b serious, i just need to take my own pace at giving the guy my heart. no one wants to just keep getting hurt, ya know. think if it were u
2006-09-06 23:33:33 · answer #8 · answered by Hollz 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is, within a woman's best interest, to take things slowly. It takes time to really get to know a person. A smart woman will depend less on the things she simply hears him say about himself and more on the things she sees for herself. His actions will certainly speak for themselves. Again, a smart woman will, within reason, do what she has to do to protect her emotions. You don't need me to tell you, but there are some no-good, scum suckers out there! Who in their right mind would want to get involved with them? It is worse if a woman involves herself with them rather quickly.
2006-09-06 23:41:54 · answer #9 · answered by JEFFAVEGRL 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yea but my last relationship was really weird. We were serious yet we werent serious. Like she didnt like being touched and physically intimate yet i've already been physically abused by her friends because they thought i might hurt her....i noe u don't understand blaaaa
2006-09-06 23:42:45 · answer #10 · answered by JO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋