im 17 and have never been kissed or even had a "real" boyfriend(third grade and fourth grade doesnt count in my book) and i was just wondering if there was something wrong with me or what?! i've talked with my very best friend and she says just wait and dont worry it'll happen when it happens. the only thing about that is that she's in a very serious relatonship and has NO idea how i feel....whats up?!?!?
2006-09-06 16:22:23 · 24 answers · asked by coolgirllove2 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Ah, don't worry about it. I personally didn't have my first real girlfriend until I was 18. Reason being I was every girl's personal councelor in High school. Eegad, men are immature at your age...so don't worry about it. I will say this ...love is weird. Meaning that when you are not looking for love, love finds you. And keep that first kiss for someone special....because it will be the kiss that you will remember for the rest of your life. ; )
Hope this helps
2006-09-06 16:27:10 · answer #1 · answered by Chistiaŋ 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
there is absolutely nothing wrong with you at all. When the time is right you will find a guy and will be kissed. I know how you feel though........I never had a boyfriend all through high school and was never kissed either. Believe it or not my first serious relationship came when I was 32 years old and that is when my first kiss happened too. So, you see just be patient and you will get that boyfriend and have your first kiss.
If you ask me God is looking around for the best guy for you because thats what you deserve to have the best there is.......When the time is right God will place that guy into your life and he will know how to treat you with respect, honesty, kindness, caring......all the things a young lady needs and deserves in a relationship.
Dont worry so much and know that you are a great girl and any guy would be lucky to have you......I know its hard to see your friend in a serious relationship
when you sit and wonder " when is it gonna be my time" but believe me your time will come soon enough....hang in there God loves YOU very much and will find that right guy for you.
2006-09-06 23:47:17 · answer #2 · answered by wendyceline2001 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think there is anything to worry about. I always think that first kiss is very important for most girls, so would you prefer to give your first kiss to a guy who really cares about you or just some random guy just so that you would feel better because you have kissed? I know of a friend who has her first kiss at 25 and now she is happily married to that guy. So there is really nothing to worry about. Beside you are only 17, you have time on your side. So it is better to wait for the right guy to give your first kiss to. Hope you would find that guy soon. Good luck.
2006-09-06 23:32:20 · answer #3 · answered by Duck Curry 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart, please don't feel bad. There is nothihg wrong with you. If you REALLY want to be kissed than you should wait for the right guy to come along. I was 24 when I had my first kiss and have had many since. A woman can find anyone to kiss but it isn't going to be memorable or worth it if you rush things. Just be patient and when the time comes and it will come....your first kiss will be very special and you will be glad that you didn't rush it. Trust me....I have been there. Nothing wrong with you.
2006-09-06 23:27:07 · answer #4 · answered by Nicky 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
There isn't anything wrong with you. You just have to wait until the time is right. There's nothing wrong with never beeing kissed because it will happen eventually and when it does it be be all the more better for you and your partner because it will be more intimate.
2006-09-06 23:32:45 · answer #5 · answered by Lady G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't have a boyfriend (or a first kiss) until I was 17 and a half. But that's because I wasn't allowed to date until then. Anyway, don't worry about it, you'll find someone eventually.
2006-09-06 23:25:55 · answer #6 · answered by i luv teh fishes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good for you! Kissing isn't just something to do! And at 17 and still not being kissed is really quite virtuous and something to be proud of.
And NO, there is absolutely not anything wrong with you whatsoever!
2006-09-06 23:28:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anna M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be your self....when the time is right it will happen.......Also it helps to not have a huge ZIT the size of a third eyeball in the center of your forehead. So ... bust the zit, but on a baid aid and meet some people ..... start a conversation, meet someone new ....be random ...walk up to someone your age and give them a complement......Do Not expect a bunch of roses for your efforts ... but it will break the ice in takling and warming up to people...... give it a shot !
2006-09-06 23:28:37 · answer #8 · answered by John 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go rent the movie Never Been Kissed.
2006-09-06 23:24:36 · answer #9 · answered by thebrockmillionaire 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm 17 and I've never had a girlfriend. You want to talk e-mail me at acidicrage2006@yahoo.com
2006-09-09 06:16:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋