Me and my girlfriend have been going out for about a week and i'm not sure if i'm ready to hold her hand or not. I have never held hands with anyone or kiss anyone before. Should I hold her hand?
2006-09-06 15:53:32 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
she has never held anyone hand before either.
2006-09-06 15:56:01 · update #1
I remember that step and it is a big one. Don't be afraid. Imagine if she grabbed your hand; you would be overwhelmed with happiness. She is feeling the same thing. Go for it.
2006-09-06 15:56:36 · answer #1 · answered by John S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummm you should talk to her, and tell her if she is ready and stuff. If she says yes or that she is comfortable, then go ahead if you feel the same way. My girlfriend and I held hands after 1 month, of going out, and yeah its cause im a really shy guy, and yeah she is actually the first "real" commited girlfriend i have had. Also the first girlfriend to ever get physical, so yeah.
-Edward
2006-09-06 23:00:42 · answer #2 · answered by cursedconcept 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with the flow. As a young boy just getting started, realize one thing. No matter what your intentions are or what you do - you will be wrong.
My advice... slow down and let the relationship evolve into whatever it is going to be.
2006-09-06 23:00:45 · answer #3 · answered by ccarter313 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think u should, youre askin this question because u feel some type of discomfort, hold hands, kiss, make love, when u feel comfortable or when u really want to
2006-09-06 22:56:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2006-09-06 22:56:05 · answer #5 · answered by eugene65ca 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok. since i am a gurl i would say she'd definitely like it. yes u should and she would LOVE that she's ur 1st! kiss or holding hands with anyway. one week is a lot in girl time. she would luv it i'm telling ya'!! :)
2006-09-06 22:58:11 · answer #6 · answered by HappyState™ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I would hold her hand if you like her.
2006-09-06 22:56:48 · answer #7 · answered by irishphoenix 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should hold hands when you and her feel comfortable about it.
2006-09-06 22:57:11 · answer #8 · answered by T.Mack 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sure, if she wants to. That's a nice enough thing to do.
2006-09-06 22:55:34 · answer #9 · answered by Steve H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess asking her for a bl*w job would be out of line then !!!!!!!!!
2006-09-06 22:59:34 · answer #10 · answered by john l 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋