I mean I don't want to sound gay but honest to gooodness I think I like girls...Help...
2006-09-06 15:48:58 · 30 answers · asked by poetchicka2 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Who has the right to say what is weird or not weird? If you as a grown person wish to engage with another grown, sane, willing person why should the gender even be a concern. People are far too wrapped up in what's going on in the downstairs department than traveling up north to the heart and further to the mind. These are the things you should evaluate when choosing someone to be with. Attraction is possible to any person at anytime. It's what strikes your eye and moves your heart that is the most integral. What's weird is questioning what you feel. You know yourself better than anyone in this feed will. Go with your gut.
2006-09-06 17:52:26 · answer #1 · answered by logansgirl101 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may be bisexual or bicurious. Nothing wrong with that. You can hide it if you want to, that's a plus. However, the sooner you accept it, the sooner that huge weight will be lifted off your shoulders. Like that feeling you get when you finally finish that huge research paper due in 5 hours! ^_^
You're cool. You're not weird. I'm bi, and I have no problem with it. I like girls and guys. So what? Doesn't mean I'm going to go all 'round town and fornicate. I'm me, and the one friend I told respects that, which is great!
You don't sound gay. You don't need help.
Here's a link to one of my old questions. The answers are a lot nicer than the ones you have.
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=A9FJusE3p_9ES0UAoQPsy6IX?qid=1006051423719
Hope this helps.
2006-09-07 00:57:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may be thinking you are attracted to same gender and that will cause you to be that way, gay. If you are not sure, then do not try and think you are. Instead you could ask help from Jesus Christ to help you make a choice based on God Almighty's plan and not your will that may be falling away from God Almighty;s plan. It is one thing to be attracted to same gender, it is another thing to have homosexual acts with someone of the same gender. If it happens or if it has, you can ask for help to change and then let Jesus Christ help you . It could take a while for change to be seen, but He will help if you ask him.
2006-09-06 23:43:13 · answer #3 · answered by ishelp4 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not Abnormal to have a atraction to the same sex. Lots of people feel this way and assume they have a problem. Its genetics.
You very well may be gay, wheather you accept it or not..... the best thing to do is try to keep a level head about things.... as much as possible.
although if you find yourself looking more at women then men. you very well may be gay.
welcome to the family.
2006-09-06 22:52:01 · answer #4 · answered by digitaldancer22 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I mean every female thinks about it in her life, even though she tries to deny it. You aren't weird, if that's what you want, then don't worry about what other people think. I mean I have a man, but hey, do what makes you happy and feels right!
2006-09-06 22:51:32 · answer #5 · answered by the baddest 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say try being intimate with one, and see how it feels. Most of my young sexual experiences were with girls, but when I grew up I still ended up dating guys. I like girls, but not enough to date them. So, I'd test the waters a little. Dip your toe in (so to speak), and if you like it, go ahead and get wet.
2006-09-06 22:51:28 · answer #6 · answered by Smitten_Kitten 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
why dont u want to sound gay? you are weird, but the reason isnt becoz u like girls
2006-09-07 00:10:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure how old you are but when we are young we sometimes like both and it's not till we get older we decide what one we like the most. You don't need help just be your self OK it's OK to be you..
Good Luck
2006-09-06 22:51:59 · answer #8 · answered by Super 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not weird you just like girls a lot of girls like girls,but be ready for criticism.
2006-09-06 22:51:38 · answer #9 · answered by NONAME 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's called lesbianism - and there is nothing wrong with that.
I like girls, but I'm a straight male.
2006-09-06 22:52:41 · answer #10 · answered by dreamsong67 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋