there is these twins i'm crazy over, i want to ask one of them out but i'm scared i'll get rejected!! this is my first time i will ever ask anyone out!!! someone have any advice for me!!!
2006-09-06 15:48:49 · 14 answers · asked by americanangel519 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
ask them both out and get into a 3 some.
2006-09-06 15:58:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
rejection is part of life and if you make it sound like something bigger then that you will end up hurt if you do get rejected but if you look at it has everyone has been rejected in some part of there life and there still living their life's it won't be has hard to ask him out. Good luck
2006-09-06 22:54:24 · answer #2 · answered by randrnorman 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am a twin and I was the victim of this problem. My brother and I are very different and we found it very insulting that we were lumped into the "same" person category. Get to know them, not on dates but casually, and you'll develope feelings for the one that suits what you would like. Give yourself time. There is plenty of it. You do not need to hurt them or yourself by assuming they are the same or making them fight over you.
2006-09-06 22:52:58 · answer #3 · answered by John S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you are crazy about both you have two chances to snag one of them. Also, chances are, if you ask one out, the other will be jealous over the attention and then want you to ask him out. I know that sounds coy but boys are competitive by nature and twins are especially so. I know it is scary to get rejected; I still have problems asking out guys. However, guys like nothing more then to see a girl confident enough to ask a guy out. Guys are always scared of rejection but they ask girls out because it's convention and if they didn't, they might never get a guy. Breaking out of form and showing them you have the balls will make you really attractive. However, even if you are interested in both of them, they don't want to feel like they are the same person. Even though they look exactly alike and that you are probably attracted to them physically, they are two different people with personalities of their own. If you ask one out and he says no and then immediately ask the other out, they will feel like you are shallow and don't like them for who they are. Maybe you should try to become friends with them first and learn who they are as people because then, one will probably seem more your type than the other. If they are in a class with you, ask them about an assignment or ask to borrow notes or have them tutor you. People like to seem smart so you could say that you always noticed that they seemed to know the material so would they mind helping you out. Study groups are good because then you have an excuse to hang out on a school night and your parents won't be wary of you hanging out with a guy if it is school related. If you have common friends then confide in a friend that you want to get closer to them, go out as a group. If they are involved in a group at school that you might be interested in then join up too as an excuse to get to know them. However, don't act like you like something just because they do because people can usually tell if you are faking it and that is a major turn-off. You need to figure out which one you really like though because you don't want to play one against the other because they are the closest people to eachother and won't let a girl come between them. I don't know if this helps but good luck! And just know that even if you get rejected, it's fine. It might feel bad but there is always a first for everything and it will make it that much easier the next time around. Girls should really take more charge now in this day in age because we shouldn't let the boys just pick us! Also, if they do reject you, don't look upset or nervous or mad. Just accept it and put your attention on someone else. If you seem so calm and collected chances are they are going to want to know what makes you that confident. But don't be too cocky! ********* and confidence are different so just be sure of yourself but not full of yourself! Again, good luck!
2006-09-06 23:03:32 · answer #4 · answered by caroline 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be brave and try to understand that the better we deal with rejection the easier our life will be, being rejected is a life long process, get used to it and try not to take it personal.
2006-09-06 22:54:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go ask .... but be ready to answer why. He just may ask why you chose him over his brother! Have a answer with more depth than " you seem neat"...... give it some thought...pick carefully have at least three things you can state...... Even if he's says no...he'll be flattered that you noticed him as a individual and not just part of a set !
2006-09-06 22:54:00 · answer #6 · answered by John 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wanting to date two people at once, are we? Aren't we aiming a bit high for someone with the type of intellect that has to post stupid questions on Yahoo Answers?? And who can't even type an actual sentence??
2006-09-06 22:51:02 · answer #7 · answered by xcrimsonxphoenixofxhellx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to feel it out.. do you think one of the twins has any interest in you? if yes.. why not.. whats the worst thing that could happen? they say no... move on.
2006-09-06 22:53:09 · answer #8 · answered by project_twenty9 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Dont be scared of rejection it happens to the best of us
2. Dont be all depressed if he says no theres lots of other guys
Good Luck!
2006-09-06 22:51:33 · answer #9 · answered by xpoisonousxinjectionx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry, if you get rejected you get another chance with the other one!
It's the perfect situation!
2006-09-06 22:50:17 · answer #10 · answered by s_e_e 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋