I am a guy that is a bisexual, but feel uncomfortable around feminine acting gay guys. I may be bi but I do not show signs of being gay. People see me as an average strait guy. I refuse to ever act like women like some gay guys. I do not mean to affend no one, I'm just trying to make my point. By the way I like gay guys that act fiminine, but just uncomfortable around them.
2006-09-06 15:39:45 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
There is nothing wrong with the way you act or feel. Just because you are in that type of lifestyle doesnt mean you have to act in any particular way. If you like who you are, then so be it. I would say that you need to sit down and see what it is exactly that you dont like about those men who are more feminine and figure out what that does to you- both good and bad.
Good for you though for not wanting to follow what everyone sees on tv!
2006-09-06 15:43:44 · answer #1 · answered by glorymomof3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You feel exactly the way I feel! Although when I said that on this forum, since it's a touchy topic and I'm bad at saying things that arn't so blunt, I pissed off a lot of people haha!!
This is why I admire gay bears so much! You could probably find a lot of gay bear spots to go to that you'd be comfortable in.
Although...I can be barely considered manly, I'm so nerdy! I just don't like feminine guys either!
There are LOTS of "normal" gay guys, or "straight acting". Although in my opinoin you don't "act" straight, you either ask masculine or feminine or somewhere in between.
Yeah I'm so ranting. I'm just glad there are people out there who feel exactly the same as me!
IN SHORT: It means you're normal! You'd probably be comfortable in gay bear bars.
2006-09-06 22:49:23 · answer #2 · answered by Adam G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people have a gender nonconformity, often undiagnosed even. Some may have hormone imbalance that may cause the gender nonconformity while others may have learned characteristics that cause the gender dysphoria, or gender nonconformity. Usually the ones that have a learned gender nonconformity grow out of characters that seem to mostly make them look like the opposite gender. It is not the same thing as homosexual, but many people think they are the same issue. Sexual attractions formed are totally a separate issue than gender nonconformity. Science to day seem to say that many people with hormonal effective gender nonconformity often become homosexual. Any child can become attracted to the same gender through an experience they have had, even the experiences they have forgotten. sounds like you do not have a gender nonconformity and sounds like you are attracted to males that do not have this gender nonconformity either.
2006-09-06 22:54:48 · answer #3 · answered by ishelp4 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are u uncomfortable around girls too? hmm u could be afraid to come out of the so called closet. ps: if u want to be in a relationship with a boy u should go with someone that is bi who doesn't act girly either.
2006-09-06 22:48:34 · answer #4 · answered by kurakun 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We are who we are and I feel it's not what we choose to act like it's just the way we are. OK with that said I'm 41 years old and straight acting and trust me 99% of my friends do not know at all and I've known them all my life...
2006-09-06 22:43:57 · answer #5 · answered by Super 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hum.. seems to me you might be afraid people will catch on to u being Bi,if u hung around the girly guys.
2006-09-06 22:45:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand. I'm bi, and I'm very girly. No one would ever guess I was bi. I don't like butch women, but women that are like me. Girly that is. I get nervous around women I'm attracted to.
2006-09-07 14:02:31 · answer #7 · answered by Q~T 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't like feminine men, but you call yourself Dee I? Isn't that a contradiction?
2006-09-07 02:23:25 · answer #8 · answered by M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not as big a deal as you are thinking.. it is all about preference.
2006-09-06 23:15:39 · answer #9 · answered by BeachBum 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋