she said b-cuz i went with a guy she liked last year! but- he didn't want her- he wanted me!!! i'm soooo jealous of her! I'm sick of it!
I still liked him first, another boy. and then she was like, "I may like him a little but that's cuz you keep talkin about him!"
to me that was just plain stupid to say. but is she a good friend???
2006-09-06 15:32:24 · 13 answers · asked by HappyState™ 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
When you express how you feel for someone to one of your friends, it makes the person you like seem great to your friends too. Beware of how good you make those whom bear your crush look.
2006-09-06 15:35:32 · answer #1 · answered by John S 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Again, no ages, but you sound very young, so I'll make it simple. If I said, yes, she is your best friend, I think you would have a problem taking that and feeling satisfied. Obviously you two have a competition thing. Boys are going to be the prize. There is nothing unusual about any of this - just watch your back. Guys do this to each other but the key in both cases is that the person they are seeking has to be willing to stray, and that makes them unworthy too.
But again, if you are teens, even 20s, that is the merry go round of day to day life. Don't let it get you too upset, just play safe - no STDs, no babies...
2006-09-06 15:44:56 · answer #2 · answered by Andre1998 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she can still be your friend, but not a good friend, you know? I mean everyone is not meant to be a good friend and as you grow older your friends will wear away like leaves, they come and go. I went from having 10 good friends to having 2. The others are alright to hang out with every now and then, but that's as far as it goes.
2006-09-06 15:45:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sin't a very good friend, because what kind of friend would want to try to steal the man you like just because she wants some sort of sick revenge. Not a very good one! She's trying to make you feel bad and friends don't treat friends that way. Either talk to her about it, or dump her on the spot!
2006-09-06 15:40:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not a good friend, no. But the boy is fair game until he commits to one of you. However it's not like she really liked him in the first place. She's just trying to steal your thunder. Is that the kind of friend you want?
2006-09-06 15:35:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know the answer to this question. Good friends don't hurt each other and they sure don't pay each other back because of a mistake. Leave her alone she will continue to do this if you let is slide once.
2006-09-06 15:43:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a pal is a pal and once you need to fret no matter if a 'pal' is going after your guy, then perchance she isn't your pal. on the different hand, if you're in a courting the position your guy keeps you guessing about his loyalty? you're in the incorrect courting. you need to be at liberty, so basically keep this all in concepts.
2016-12-06 09:20:59 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm going to tell you something you NEED to know. Friends are for right now, love is forever. (or at least that's they way you feel everytime you fall in love). And one day you'll see what I mean, if you like a guy enough, your friends won't matter. You'll betray them for him, or give them up for him. Friends are for right now, love is forever.
2006-09-06 15:36:09 · answer #8 · answered by Smitten_Kitten 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No she not ,anyone who will cross that line when your friends are the ones who will cheat with your boyfriend. keep her close but not close enough to hurt you like that saying goes " Keep your friends close but Keep your enemies closer".
2006-09-06 15:36:57 · answer #9 · answered by randrnorman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm quite sorry your fren doesn't seem supportive of this crush you have on the guy.
I guess you have to choose your frens carefully.
2006-09-06 15:42:30 · answer #10 · answered by Hang Tough 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋