2006-09-06 15:15:08 · 8 answers · asked by coco_light 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Better that he knows now than 18 years down the road.
2006-09-06 15:18:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess tell him it happens to lots of us and he is not alone. Get him started talking and then listen reflectively it will help him get it out. REFLECTIVELY "That ### of mine has been 5097346 around on me"" It sounds to me like you are really angry" If i get divorced I'll have to pay support for a child that's not even mine,,,not much you can do huh. Suggest he write all the stuff down that he is angry about in letter form to his wife. Tell him he does not have to give it to her just write it. Expressing makes it better.
2006-09-06 15:22:48 · answer #2 · answered by icheeknows 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you can do is be there when he wants to talk to you and supporth him. And if he doesnt talk once in a while ask him how are you doing and that can make him open up to you when he is ready so just be ther for him.
2006-09-06 15:17:35 · answer #3 · answered by Happy Mommy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the girls house and kick her @ss. Then spray paint slut on her car. I think that would help out a lot. But that's just my opinion.
2006-09-06 15:25:34 · answer #4 · answered by billy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be there for him, he's going to need someone to vent too and take him places to meet new people!!
2006-09-06 15:34:06 · answer #5 · answered by emnari 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just let him be mad and dont get pissed off at him if he is angry with the wrong people. its the hurt in him getting out.
failing that just shoot the bastard who shagged his missus!
2006-09-06 15:17:43 · answer #6 · answered by knuckles 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be there for him that is all you can do.
2006-09-06 15:19:46 · answer #7 · answered by Emma G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be a sister....you can't really relate.
2006-09-06 15:16:52 · answer #8 · answered by ***Miss Ria*** 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋