I'm 18 yr old and theres a guy i like i think he likes me back well i've been think about him 24/7
one day we were at my apt. and he was turing me on but i didnt know what to do i didnt know if i should make the 1st move or what?
2006-09-06 14:54:50 · 18 answers · asked by alliyah C 1 in Dining Out ➔ Other - Dining Out
you arent going to do it while dining out are you?
2006-09-06 23:24:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Like everyone else has said, this is wrong on many levels. However, be honest. Tell him you want to have sex without protection. Also tell him (if its the case) that you refuse to have an abortion if you get pregnant, and he can potentially kiss 30% or more of his paycheck goodbye for the next 18+ years. He'll break down the door trying to escape, or he'll be smart and tell you he won't do it without a rubber and some backup form of birth control. If he does decide to do it without protection then he's an idiot and you shouldn't be helping to perpetuate his genes.
2006-09-06 22:14:23 · answer #2 · answered by Rose D 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
There are two parts to this question. Losing your virginity is a personal issue, and only you know when you are ready to do so. If you are certain that you are, and certain that he is the one with whom you wish to share that experience, by all means let him know what you want. The other issue here, however, is the issue of protection. UNDER NO CIRCUMSTANCES should you have sex without protection unless and until you know that he is COMPLETELY disease free, AND you are prepared to raise the child that could be conceived if your birth control happens to fail you.
2006-09-06 22:07:32 · answer #3 · answered by Chickyn in a Handbasket 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
This question is wrong on so many levels, I would avoid jumping in the sack and having unprotected sex with anyone. I would think long and hard (tee hee hee) before you make any rash decisions that could impact you for the rest of your life (Pregnancy, STD, plus Losing your virginity to a guy you may or may not love. and let me not forget that HPV causes cervical cancer) Worst Case Senereo, you get pregnant, HPV and die of cervical cancer before your child graduates high school.
2006-09-06 22:02:13 · answer #4 · answered by Chad 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
wait have him put the condom before. and stop arguing and thinking about it. if not go and see a movie about aids and the new Africa -- then go back to make love. it will be in your mind. take this advice -- at times it saves lives. and worth the 4-5 inch balloon.
2006-09-09 01:16:16 · answer #5 · answered by s t 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you ready for a pregnancy at 18, children, a guy who may not be interested in marrying you, then you end up on welfare? Not to mention, as others have mentioned, STD's, herpes, HIV, AIDS, and cervical cancer. Think about this... don't think while your emotions are running high, but take time as this will affect the rest of your life.... and his, but likely he will flee from the responsibility of it.
If you are going to have sex with him, then at least care about yourself enough to make him wear a condom.
2006-09-06 22:28:51 · answer #6 · answered by son-shine 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Hell no!
Don't you know ANYTHING about STD's, herpes, HIV/AIDS. You want to give your virginity to a guy you hardly know? What kind of rep are you trying for?
if you make ANY move, he'll be inside your pants in a flash, and you may find out you're pg and have herpes! Nice present for giving it out so easy, girl!
2006-09-06 23:38:42 · answer #7 · answered by seeitmiway32 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hey hey u better calm down!!!!!!!!! u should take it slow, u might end up pregnant and he may tell u that no matter what he will always be with u but once he finds out ur having a baby he might leave u if this happens, not using condom. and u should really think about it, losing it to him, is it really worth it? take it easy and if u want to make the first move,,, hey why not? but remember think about it first!
2006-09-06 22:02:41 · answer #8 · answered by Wilmer 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Only stupid sluts give away their virginity to a guy they know less than a year. At least prostitutes get paid for the SAME thing.
Since you are neither slutty nor stupid, DON'T DO IT!!! You will regret it for the REST of your life. Listen to ALL the warnings. We are warning you for a reason. Save yourself for your husband, that, you won't regret.
2006-09-06 23:05:19 · answer #9 · answered by #1 auntie 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You should not have sex with someone if you are unsure. You are obviously not sure, or you would not be posting this on yahoo answers. If you decide to have sex, be sure to use protection to avoid contracting a sexually transmitted disease and/or becoming pregnant. Please talk to an adult, someone you trust, before making such an adult decision.
2006-09-06 22:00:25 · answer #10 · answered by Michele L 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Im all for you making the first move- girl power and whatnot. However, that completely contradicts that you want to have unprotected sex. I don't doubt that if you know you're ready, you're ready, but you gotta be smart about it.
2006-09-06 22:08:42 · answer #11 · answered by Margaret 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋