her bathroom trash can....okay maybe i shouldnt have been in there but i needed her hair dryer and i just saw the test box...so What?My little sister is pregnant and she hasnt told me yet....she tells me everything..and she knows I'm there for her....Its been 1 month already and she's not really showing but her eating habits have changed...If i ask her about it, she's just gonn deny it....but we're both going to get our physicals in like two weeks...and I dnt want her to look stupid in front of my big brother, who we live with. I mean usually the doctor can''t say anything but this doctor can..because she's my brothers wife!!!! not only that...but when he finds out that the baby is his bestfriends lil brother he's gonna trip.....I just dnt want my lil sister to look stupid...What should i do????
2006-09-06 14:42:06 · 25 answers · asked by HoneydiPp 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
I'd ask her about it...hell it might not even be her's before i found out i was pregnant i took a test over at my freinds house...and left it in there her mom flipped when she found and then my freind didnt want to tell on me....lol she just said yeah its mine mom...and then when i couldnt come over anymore shanina told me why and i was like dude i gotta tell your mom so i told her mom it was mine...yeah then i wasnt allowed to come over anymore then either...lol so i dont know if that fixed the problem!!! haha.....but if i was you id defiently get with my sister and like get a amagiazine or something and ask her about guys she likes and then casual say hey have you ever had sex?/ and just kinda let it go from there...if that doesnt work try going to her as a freind and saying hey are you okay? you in any kinda trouble she needs someone right now to be ther for her cause im sure she's feels scared and all alone...your her sister gotta step up to the plate...goodluck!
2006-09-06 14:48:44 · answer #1 · answered by cutenwild1769 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe u can take ur lil sister on a lunch date then kinda like bring it up and if she denies it tell her u was lookin for a comb or somethin in the bath room and found the test then see what she says ( the thing about u can only hide a stomach for so long till it starts to show) ( trust i know) as for the brother trippin situation he's gonna find out eventually so i wouldnt tell him i would let her or the best friend tell em ya know that way she wont be too upset with u. but all jokes aside is she see a doctor cuz anything can happen while u are pregnant and if she dont get the medical attention she needs (not sayin that it will happen) but somethin can happen( that the dr. can catch that could save the baby and her )so seeing a dr is very important while u are pregnant. a friend of my mother daughter was pregnant and she miscarried but her mother didnt know and the babies stayed in her dead and now she cant have kids because the decomposin messed up her insides so tell ur sister.
2006-09-06 15:23:49 · answer #2 · answered by lilbaby194u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had something similiar happen to me. My sister is a year and a half older than me and she got pregnant at the age of 15. I found the test in the bathroom and we are really close so I asked her about it.
She made up some lame excuse, but I knew it was only a matter of time before she would tell me or have to tell someone. She finally confessed to it and I didn't know what to do.
She went to our sister in law for help and suprisingly enough, she got a lot of support from our family.
Just go out with her or something and ask her. I think she will tell you the truth or else she will have to eventually. You need her to tell you the truth because time is ticking and the longer she waits the less options she has.
You need to talk to a trusted adult about it. Her options on what she can do depend on how early she comes out and tells someone about it.
2006-09-06 14:51:10 · answer #3 · answered by Never [?] YOUR <3* 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well,at 15 she is going to need you and your brothers support tremendously.You need to sit her down,take her aside where you two can be alone or even for a walk.Tell her you saw the test,and that you there for her.Also,tell her she needs to tell your brother.If he is the guardian of the household,he needs to know.She will need to go to a gyno,and your brother and you and his wife can recommend a good one in your area.Right now,she needs support emotionally,just someone to talk to and to lean on.She knows she can trust you,but im sure she also feels that right now if she tells you this it will be a disappointment.Now,your brother,yourself,and his wife need to sit down as a family and speak about this.Once you get her to open up to you,tell her you both need to tell your brother but you will be there for her and with her when she does so.She has at least 8 months maybe a little less to decide if she wants to raise this baby or put it up for adoption(i left abortion out,because in any circumstances,i do not believe it is acceptable or should even be considered).Each of you as a family needs to decide this together,ultimately it is her decision but if she does decide to keep this child she will need alot of support from your brother,his wife and yourself.You really need to speak to her,and offer her a shoulder and an ear,because that is what she needs now more than anything.Just help her through this pregnancy,and help her through each stage of it.Good luck.
2006-09-07 01:15:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The Best Thing You Can Do Is Confront Her And Make Her Fess Up To It. Tell Her That Your Upset, But Your There For Support.
2006-09-06 15:09:44 · answer #5 · answered by *Proud Mommy Of 2* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long after she took the test did you find it?
Even if it read positive when you saw it doesn't mean that it is. Its called an evaporation line. Thats why the directions on the test say only to read it within so many minutes. If left for too long it can give a false reading.
2006-09-06 19:09:42 · answer #6 · answered by jmlmmlmll 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about her looking stupid, But you need to step up and talk to her about it, cause firstly she's very young yet to have a baby, how else will you know if she's even ready for it. What's important is she gets herself check and in the right path and maybe she don't even want a baby just yet...She's still has alot to look forward to in her teenage years than having a baby. You need to politely talk to her about it, don't sermon, just get her to talk to you about what she really wants to do. Good_Luck and Hopefully make a good and wise decision!
2006-09-06 15:09:33 · answer #7 · answered by nAiSa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her about it. Tell her you found the test and you were concerned. Don't jump down her throat because right now thats the last thing she needs. I had a baby at 15 and it remains to be one of the most confusing times I have ever experienced.
2006-09-06 14:47:07 · answer #8 · answered by jewell2578 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This may sound a little harsh but if she is too chicken to tell anyone, she deserves to look stupid because she IS doing something stupid. Ask her or let the doctor tell you. It will need to be put out in the open sooner or later.
2006-09-06 14:45:42 · answer #9 · answered by Liz 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just confront her and tell her that you know. Let her know that you are there for support and that you don't want your brothers wife being the one to find out. Approach her in a friendly manner.
2006-09-06 14:44:43 · answer #10 · answered by mommysrock 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋