I am so sensitive sometimes one insult just makes me feel so awful. How can i be less sensitive.
2006-09-06 14:39:06 · 7 answers · asked by Cina 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well you might not even heard something like this before...but it all boils down to how you feel about yourself, there's nothing wrong with people out there, I mean there will always be someone that feels they are crap and they need to insult people to feel better about themselves, the thing is that when those kind of people insult someone that probably doesn't have a real feeling of who and what they are and what they are not, they get really affected, ask your self , "do I feel great under my own skin?", if not, you will always have that problem, you will let people's frustration convince you that you are what they are saying you are, and in reality that's not rue, you have to give yourself the value that you really deserve, not let them give you the value they think you have...basically you don't give other poeple permission to disrespect you!
and if they do, feel sorry for them, beacause matter of fact, ANY KIND OF RUDE BEHAVIOUR FROM ANOTHER PERSON TOWARDS YOU, its' just a sign of LOW SELF STEEM from their side. (that is if you didn't start being rude first right?)
Funny how society works hu? believe it that's the way it is.
So if you understand this and can go around and improve how you feel abou yourself, any kind of rude behaviour will not affect you that much , since you already know what you are and what you are not and really believe it.
good luck
2006-09-06 15:32:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take people for what they are!! I used to be the same way but I learned to read people and defend myself and always be per pared of what is going to be said and ready to follow up. Put people in there place!! I f they piss you off then be upfront and tell them. Don`t hold back!! People will learn to leave you alone and not voice there opinion on something thats sensitive too you!!, This does take some time but start by learning to read people. If you know what there going to say or do then you can per pare yourself to follow up with something witty or be ready to defend yourself!!
2006-09-06 14:49:30 · answer #2 · answered by bren_jim 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask some friends to insult you for at least two hours...straight. If you cry, they get to kick you in the vagina. If you dont, they get to kick you in the vagina.
Ohh you are so stupid. (was that so bad?)
Whore!
As$ licker.
See, this isn't so bad is it...YOU COW!
2006-09-06 14:41:48 · answer #3 · answered by Bruce B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't take things so personally. You will need to develop a thicker skin so that people's comments won't bother you.
2006-09-06 14:41:22 · answer #4 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant really change who you are.your just kind and dont see(or dont want to see )how a lot of people are. i wont trust anyone until i notice something in them or they earn it.. people are bastards.... but dont close your eyes , or you'll miss the good ones like yourself.
2006-09-06 16:47:14 · answer #5 · answered by mobs8970 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start thinking like this if they don't pay your bills and put close on your back then fu*ck what they say
2006-09-06 14:41:40 · answer #6 · answered by tpchick22 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try not to take eveything to heart
2006-09-06 14:42:17 · answer #7 · answered by OceanBlue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋