i don't! i think i'm ok looking but i'm more insecure than what most people would think , therfore i am unhappy with no confidence does anyone feel the same way? does insecrurities come with being ok looking or is it just me?
2006-09-06 14:28:50 · 9 answers · asked by jessica c 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
I think that being attractive will open a lot of doors for you. The porblem with that is that the doors that open are (too often) ones you really don't want to walk through. They often lead right into a situtation with a person (guy) who is more interested in arm candy and the status of "capturing a live angel", than he is in having a real, genuine loving relationship. same thing with the working world.
Some old farts will hire beautiful young women becuase they think it will magically make their company more sexy and attractive to customers. Plus they get to feel all sorts of creepy power surges knowing they are "The Boss" of someone beautiful and have control over their futures. Can I just say, Ewwwwwwwwwwwww!
The reality-long term, is that after the fairy dust of beauty wears off, there has to be substance in a person to keep anything (job, relationship etc.) going. My case in point...Christie Brinkley.
Holy crap. Here's one of the most beautiful women on the planet and she's been married three (4?) times and the last guy cheated on her? WHAT? He thought he could do better with some dumb kid? What an idiot.
I have a college age daughter who is stunningly beautiful and she spent a lot of evenings alone at home because men are either obnoxiously glommy or intimidated in her presence. Gift or curse? Sometimes it's both.
Happiness is being completely satisfied with WHAT IS.
2006-09-06 14:40:07 · answer #1 · answered by Mimi Di 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it certainly is an advantage for you social life and maybe your success but beauty is in the eye of the beholder so if you dont think youre pretty, maybe someone else thinks youre beautiful. Have some confidence, that produces the most radiant beauty there is.
2006-09-06 15:07:28 · answer #2 · answered by imapo0po0head 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, you're not happier or have a better life because you may be prettier than someone else. the prettiest girl that graduated with me now has the life from hell. sure, she could have any guy in schoool, and IF she cleaned herself up now, she might can pick and choose, but she hasn't traveled like i have, she doesn't have the education i have, she hasn't found love like i have. she's struggling, her boyfriend abuses her, physically, and mentally, and she has a son to care for. i'm not saying all this to put her down, i'm not mentioning any names, there are many in the same boat. but i'm saying it because we all choose our own lives to live. looks have nothing to do with how successful or non-successful you may be. just make the most of what you have, WORK IT!!! my advice to you would be, dont' be insecure. love yourself, and others will love you. i have big friends, and they seem to attract gorgeous men, and i'm like WTF. but i realize its the personality, not the looks. its all about using what you have, to get what you want! MAKE IT HAPPEN!
2006-09-06 14:39:55 · answer #3 · answered by Shuggah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From experience... I think initially some people get treated differently from the way that they look. Although having confidence makes one look even more pretty. So it really just depends on the persons personality.
2006-09-06 14:32:33 · answer #4 · answered by sharpy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guess u need to work on the inside then, get pretty on the inside and the outside comes naturally.
2006-09-06 14:31:15 · answer #5 · answered by sunflare63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what a pity you are focusing on the outside. when your feeling good about youself on the inside noone will ever notice the wrapping anyway. but you look hot in your pic anyway
2006-09-06 15:59:20 · answer #6 · answered by Scott G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nooo, pretty people have it hard in life! with all the unfair treatment, dirty looks, and being single all their lives.
2006-09-06 14:31:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have mild acne so sometimes i feel the same way. but now i try to remind myself that no one's perfect.
2006-09-06 14:34:29 · answer #8 · answered by stitchfan85 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YEA ii THiiNK BEiiNG HAWT GiiVES YOU MORE CONFiiDENCE TO BASiiCALLY DO ANY THiiNG
2006-09-06 14:31:17 · answer #9 · answered by ♥JENN♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋