I've heard stories of people who have abused drugs in their youth and their spouces have learned to deal with it and forget. My girlfriend has recently started to drink and I don't know how to get over it. We've been together for several years and I do not fear her being unfaithful, but this makes me very uncomfortable. Any help is appreciated.
2006-09-06 14:23:30 · 5 answers · asked by John S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
How often is she drinking and does she know how you feel about her drinking? Be honest with her and tell her how you feel. Maybe if she knows that it is really bothering you she will stop. It shows that you really care alot about her. If she is drinking socially or occassionally, its not too bad, but if you are against it for religious reasons, she should understand that. If she is abusing alcohol, she needs to see about getting help through AA (Alcohol Anonymous) I hope that she listens to you and knows that you love her enough to want her to stop drinking. Good luck!
2006-09-06 14:37:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a million or 2 drinks an afternoon won't be something to rigidity approximately. might she rather pass out to drink,than drink at living house? i does not difficulty basically yet. your'e fortunate which you're actually not in my footwear. my lady chum lies,and sneaks to drink. have you ever seen the movie"whilst a guy loves a female"? thats my lady chum.in case you drink, pass have a million w/ her.
2016-10-14 09:53:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is that bad, then I would tell her that you can't stay around and watch her anymore destroy herself............Trust me! My Dad was an alcoholic...He was so hard to live with, and to see.
Tell her you will go to 3 AA meetings with her( she may need you to do that), and then you are done because it hurts you also...Trust me, if she doesn't want to lose yu she will at least try to get help now b/4 it is too late, Good luck hon!
2006-09-06 14:31:09 · answer #3 · answered by mom of a boy and girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can start drinking with her or leave and kiss her good by before you both get killed by her drinking
2006-09-06 14:28:50 · answer #4 · answered by mia t 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe shes drinking because of you. its over. go find someone else.
2006-09-06 14:27:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋