im just writing this to make myself feel better.
this one day i fianally told a guy i liked him, and he says he likes be back, but turns out he likes 3 other people, and all of them are more popular than me. i just know hes gonna pick on of them, today he avoided me so i wont talk to him about this situation. i feel bad, i really do want him, and i want him to be happy. he says hes my best friend, and he is best friends with cass too, but he treats her better and i feel like im not part of the group, and that im left behind, and he likes this girl who writes peoms, and he says he likes girls who are writers, and i have been writing peoms for 7 years now, and he says he likes a girl to be pretty and smart, and he will ask them out no matter waht, and am i not pretty, am i not smart? am i not what he wants. am i not good enough for him. am i just a loner waiting to die and rot right there in my place? am i not human? dont i have any feelings? i love this guy, i love him!
2006-09-06 14:21:12 · 6 answers · asked by sad but cute 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
He's mean! He's playing mind games with you and the more you exhibit your affection for him, the more he's gonna take you for granted. You are a talented pretty young lady, you should never let a guy bring you for a ride like what happened. Tell yourself, you don't deserve such a nasty treatment from him and you deserve someone so much better than him.
It takes time for wounds to heal, but believe me, one year down the road, you'd be out with some other guy who adores you more than anyone else. And you'd be thinking, 'What the hell was I even thinking of when I liked that jerk!?'
You need to go out and meet other friends. Don't cling onto this guy anymore. Even if he told you that he likes you, you'd spend the rest of the time worrying when he'll start liking someone else. Be with someone who treats you like a proper lady. Good luck!
2006-09-06 14:28:52 · answer #1 · answered by citrusy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do so many of us feel we have to try so hard to please someone to get them to like us? I realize you really like this guy and you have all the things he says he likes but there are still those other 3 girls.He sounds like he enjoys all the attention."Am I not good enough?" you said. As far as I'm concerned you are too good.That is if you don't continue chasing him. Just be yourself and if he really wants you he'll be with you and if he isn't than try to let go and wait for someone who deserves your love and devotion.Love really does hurt sometimes but you have to be true to yourself or you may change into someone you won't know or like.Waiting for the right person is worth it in the end.Step back and take another look at this guy.Then look into the mirror and see if he deserves you......Best of luck and stop being so hard on yourself.
2006-09-06 21:40:03 · answer #2 · answered by tea cup 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i don't understand....how can you love a guy that only wants a girl because she's pretty??? there's obviously more to you than what's on the outside and if he can't figure that out then he's not good enough for you and he doesn't deserve you. you should find someone who will really appreciate you for the way you are as a person. your liking for this guy will pass and when it does, you'll feel so much better, trust me. if you really wanna go for him though than good luck!! i hope everything works out for you.
2006-09-06 21:26:22 · answer #3 · answered by jgmice 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know a guy will tell you anything and not really mean it. It just
feeds their egos. You may be pushing to hard and that makes you look pitiful. Just be your self, have some pride and don't act as if he's alive. If he really likes you he will see you are walking away & just maybe he will come after you.
2006-09-06 21:27:19 · answer #4 · answered by Bethany 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi, if he is going to be like that then he doesn't deserve you and your better than him. find a guy that will want you .
tash
2006-09-06 21:29:58 · answer #5 · answered by tash 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
wow...i would help you but im in like almost in the same situation and ive been it for like 3 yrs..sry..
2006-09-06 21:25:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋