wouldnt the world be better off without you in it?
2006-09-06 14:16:24 · 22 answers · asked by Amanda 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
No, they really do hate me...they say it often enough
2006-09-06 14:21:15 · update #1
Nope.. certainly not!! If you hate yourself.. change those things about you that you dont like.. it may be the same things others find standoffish about you. Learn to love yourself, and others will love you for the same reasons!!
2006-09-06 14:18:52 · answer #1 · answered by Serious Mandy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO !! The world is better with you in it. The fact that you asked that question tells us that you CARE. You need to write a list of the things you hate about yourself, and then write an action plan on each that will enable you to eliminate each characteristic in you that you hate so much. Maybe when you see it in writing, you will know that it is really insignificant and not the big deal you thought it was.
If "everyone else" hates you (which I doubt), then that's THEIR problem, not yours. It won't take long and you will get to know people who really like you. Try to relax and just be yourself.
2006-09-06 21:31:10 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There will always be people that will hate you and others that won't. As for hating yourself, don't be so negative; I'm sure you could make a great addition to society if you only gave yourself the chance. The world, most likely wouldn't be better off without you, as I'm sure you've plenty to offer.
The link below gives some good tips on how to raise your self-esteem. I think they make a lot of sense. Hope this helps.
2006-09-06 21:23:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, if you hate yourself why should anyone else like you?
You are a great person, you need to put your priorities in order, and start a life. Don't worry about what other people think about you. Learn to love yourself, and be yourself, and everyone will soon love you also.
I used to be in your shoes. Always thinking "no one likes me", "no one wants to be my friend". Then one day I woke up and realized, if I don't want to be around myself then why would anyone else? So, I changed my life, made it what I wanted it to be, and now I am a happier person, and all my friend like hanging out with me, and just being my friend. You got to find what makes you happy, and learn to love yourself, then the rest will fall in to place. And if it don't, then you will be happy with yourself and you won't care what other people think.
No, the world would not be a better place. We are all here for a reason, you have just got to find your reason.
Life is a trip we all take. Trying to find what it is we are suppose to be, or meant to be. It is how you decide to take the trip to find this out is what makes you unique.
Good luck! Life will get better!
2006-09-06 21:38:57 · answer #4 · answered by sweetpeachiebear 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. Once every while we all feel this way, but then you find out that there are people that love you, and you're important to them.
Probably you're feeling down for any number of reasons, but sometimes you need to find that inside of you there is a human being that loves, hurts, and has many things that make living worthwhile.
Just try to be the best you can, and that doens't mean the richer, sexiest, most succesfull person in the world, but you just need to understand that you have flaws, but also great assets and need to come to grip with your downside.
Take care, really, you're not alone out there...
2006-09-06 21:21:21 · answer #5 · answered by Roberto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well for one thing...we are our own worst critics. And why do you think everyone else hates you. Hate is a strong word. Maybe your just dealing with depression. Have you seen your doctor lately. I would strongly advise you to have a chat with your doctor sweetie. You sound like your having severe depression. And if that's the case for you, then you can not really think clear or see the world clear around you. Its like looking through foggy glasses.
I have felt like you once. But there is light at the end of the tunnel. Please do not do anything you can not reverse. You sound so desperate. There are people to talk to. And always remember, God loves you.
Please seek help hun. Before its to late to get help and realize that there is light at the end of that tunnel. Once you do something drastic sweetie, you can not turn it back.
2006-09-06 21:28:31 · answer #6 · answered by shy_tender_lady 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
listen not veryone can hate u i don't even know u so i don't hate u u haven't done anything to me just don't do nobody that is should commit suicide honestly it is ok if u still in school just don't those ppl r jerks in your school there has to be someone that is left out and needs a friend i would know there is someone that always needs a friend trust me i've wanted to kill myself but put yourself out into the world find something that u love to do like play music/listen or just ignore them i no those ppl ruin their life but the worse they feel the better it make them feel so just be like i know i'm better than u u r just trying to put me down u feel great if u help out someone help animals they will love u will make friends doin that but u r loved by someone trust it might be a geek that lovesu but it is the thought that counts
2006-09-06 21:23:27 · answer #7 · answered by sarah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey first you have to love yourself before others can love you. You need to have confidence in your self. If you are harboring bad thoughts and you have no self worth, it seems to rub off onto others. I don't hate you and you shouldn't either. Just remember God loves everyone and he died for us. I wouldn't call that hate. Think about it. You are loved by many . You just have to except thier love. If you ask, God will send you the piece you so badly need . Just ask and you will recieve. God loves you and so do I. May the Good Lord be with you always. Amen.
2006-09-06 23:11:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand how a person can hate him/herself. I like myself very much, although perhaps some other people don't like me.
I don't believe what you say that "everybody else hates you", because I know there are always people (and quite many of them) like me.
The world goes on becuase people love themselves. And sometimes I think they love themselves too much sometimes so that they don't have enough love for others.
2006-09-06 21:27:35 · answer #9 · answered by The Mask 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
5th grade just began and i seem to have no friends but boys. I play alot of football but never had the courange to join a football team. All the popular girls annoy me by going, Hi alyssa! in a freakishly high voice. sometimes i want to wring there necks!!!!!!!!! I hate my self for being born liking football and not fitting in with the girls. The world would be better off without me and you.
2006-09-06 21:25:00 · answer #10 · answered by Aliza 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋