Im 16 my bf is 18 we found out i was Pregnant . I was getting papers for A college class and i had to go into this womens office . and she asked me questions i had to answer Orally .. and one of the questions . was age .. she could clearly see i was pregnant , she made rude comments about being pregnant at my age. I dont know what You all think about being pregnant at 16 im not her child .. so i dont see why she was being so rude .. she also stated that she had a 13 and 16 year old and if they would have came home pregnant , she would harshly punish them !
2006-09-06 14:09:50 · 15 answers · asked by WorshipMeKthx 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
I was pregnant and a mom at the age of 16. People can be rude and disrespectful. Don't let them get to you. Just remember your the mom and can be as good as any other mom if you put your heart to it. I would also have told that woman its none of her buisness.
2006-09-06 14:21:32 · answer #1 · answered by erinjl123456 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweety, I Was 15 And Pregnant, And My B/f Was 17 Getting Ready To Turn 18. My Mom Was Worried That She Was Gonna Get Into Trouble B/c Of My B/f. Yea, Ppl Will Make Rude Comments, But Just Over Look Them. Your Not Her Child, So I Don't See Why She Was So Worried About You. My Baby Is Now 10 Months Old And I Don't Regret Anything. Are You Guys Gonna Get Married? Good Luck With Delivery. Hope Everything Goes Well.
2006-09-06 15:25:06 · answer #2 · answered by *Proud Mommy Of 2* 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hardly feel that it was her place to openly comment on your condition in that situation and was therefor extremely rude. You have however asked an open question regarding very early pregnancies and I personally think that it the worst thing you can do. You are probably in the state of thinking that having a baby is a beautiful, warm, fluffy trip to fairyland, it isn't and you are not capable of finishing your education without dumping the duty of child care on your family. You have now also severely limited your opportunities of having a normal adolescence. If you had been my daughter I would, of course, not have punished you but I would have strongly advised that you had a termination. I would have also felt very ashamed that as a parent that I had not given you sufficient sex education at home to have given you the sense and understanding to have not got yourself into such a position in the first place.
2006-09-06 20:29:50 · answer #3 · answered by U.K.Export 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this lady had no right talkin to you in this sort of way i think thats disgracefull..i was pregnant when i just turned 16 i was worried and didnt tell anyone for 3 months as i was a single parent goin through it too i think its great and really proud your goin through with it and i have a lot of respect for you,believe me youll never regret it and when the baby is imn you r arms and yours itll be the best thing that has ever happened to you.you should be pround...enjoy your pregnancy take every day as it comes and love and cherish your baby as this was meantto be...
good luck and take care of yourself and espic your lil bundle..be proud and stand with your head up high and give all the love youve got xx
2006-09-07 01:39:31 · answer #4 · answered by helen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To begin with this woman should be reported,go straight to the personnel department.Part of her job description is to aide you in getting enrolled and she crossed the line when she started making disparaging comments.It is not her place to air her personal grievances on you .She deserves to be written up for inappropriate conduct.It 's absolutly none of her business if you are pregnant ,She needs to learn opinions are like a*sholes everyone has one but it's not something to share unless asked for...
2006-09-06 14:34:04 · answer #5 · answered by nighneev 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
as it is not good to be pregnant at 16, that doesn't mean that you should be turned away from a job. you must now take responsibility for yourself and The baby. try to find another job, though it may be hard. my cousin had two babies, she was also you age. she could not find a job until she had them, no one would hire her. once she had the baby, they couldn't tell, so she was able to find a job. don't give up, your baby depends on it.
2006-09-06 14:16:02 · answer #6 · answered by мΛІ€ҢΛр™ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that she should have respected you. You should be given the same respect regardless to your age and being pregnant. Actually what she did can be seen as discrimination based on age and in american that should not happen.
2006-09-06 19:14:59 · answer #7 · answered by ahisha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People need to learn to keep their mouts shut. It's none of her business. As you probably already know, opinions are like butt holes, everyone has one. I wonder what kind of mother that lady was anyway. My mom always taught me if you ahve nothing nice to say, don't say anything at all. I wonder what example she is setting for her own kids.
2006-09-06 14:12:53 · answer #8 · answered by mommysrock 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes that was very rude, she had no right to insult you like that. I would find out who her supervisor is and file a harassment suit against her.
2006-09-06 14:12:55 · answer #9 · answered by Right Wing Extremist 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol you should of said welll you know its a lil too late now dont you think BI TCH!!! haha no im just kidding id been like well were extremely pleased but thanks for asking...how many kids do you have? are you this damn nosey to them? you know people think if they can control other peoples kids it makes them look better but it just pisse s people off welcome to the real world of being an adult and putting up wtih other peoples ****.....goodluck!
2006-09-06 15:00:25 · answer #10 · answered by cutenwild1769 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋