Seriously. And I dont wanna hear that dumb stuff about 'bieng yourself'. Becasue it doesn't work. If you ask anyone who has classes with me they'll tell you I'm the nicest person ever. But for some reason I don't have any friends.
2006-09-06 13:45:44 · 10 answers · asked by away.laughing.on.a.fast.camel 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
well try to be talkative. say hi to everyone give them hugs. smile too. and just be happy. compliment people, ask questions, and tell them if u can hang out or something. it'll work trust me.
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2006-09-06 14:04:42 · answer #1 · answered by acsm 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you DO have to be yourself, but that's not all there is to it. Maybe take up a sport, or take a dance class. Or just plain ask people to hang out. Talk about music, movies, tv, shopping, whatever. I think once you and a potential friend establish common interests, it will make it easier to make some plans to hang out. When your bday comes around, throw yourself a party and invite classmates that you tend to get along with in school... Give it a shot.
2006-09-06 20:50:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to be popular is to take your attention off of yourself and to focus on other people. If you're too focused on yourself, you could say that you're being interesting as you are your own center of attention.
If you are an actor on stage, you are interesting while acting. Seminar speakers are interesting. Comedians, models and magicians are interesting.
Yet in real life, on a one-on-one basis, interesting people are irritating. They only do things to get your attention and admiration. They believe they are on stage acting for an audience of one.
If you want people to cooperate with you, to like you or to open up to you, you must be interested.
Instead of focusing on yourself, you start to focus on others. You notice what makes them happy or unhappy. Your attention comes off of you and onto others.
Five Ways to Be More Interested
1. Strive to shift your attention from yourself onto other people or objects. This is a great stress reliever.
2. Find things about people that interest you. Force yourself to look for interesting things. Soon you will automatically take interest in people without thinking about it.
3. If you catch yourself acting like someone else, you are being interesting. Simply get interested in the person in front of you and you’ll feel more natural. You are most effective when you are simply being yourself.
4. When someone makes you nervous or shy, get interested in them. Take your attention off of yourself and on to others. With practice, you will be calm, even bold.
5. Focus on how you can help others. Let your interest in helping people replace your tendency to act interesting. Your effectiveness and popularity will soar.
2006-09-06 20:49:33 · answer #3 · answered by Scotty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just smile and keep being friendly or u could join clubs and after school clubs to make friends u will make friends sooner or later give it ur best shot right now i have some friends soo u will have friends if u keep up being nice and friendly GOOD LUCK!
2006-09-06 21:02:27 · answer #4 · answered by Izzy w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have that problem too. just try to reach out to your classmates. ask to hang out or something. i hate the feeling like i don't belong but am nice to everybody.
2006-09-06 20:48:47 · answer #5 · answered by lpswimmer05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to be yourself and each day tell that person an instersting fact so you get to know that person better!!!
2006-09-06 20:52:52 · answer #6 · answered by john deere-wildfire-launga beach 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm just make your self talk to people...people might think your too civilized but snobby that you dont talk
2006-09-06 20:52:17 · answer #7 · answered by Love Exists? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
f*****k um friends are overrated and most of using back staberrs
2006-09-06 20:48:41 · answer #8 · answered by renee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be social
2006-09-06 21:02:05 · answer #9 · answered by i ♥ pink 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you get a big cauldron out you put some water in it and put it on to....................................
2006-09-06 20:49:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋