2006-09-06 13:40:06 · 20 answers · asked by ~One~Of~A~Kind~ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
To put people on the right path i am not spoiled brat i was a foster child for 10yrs & i never got any thing i wanted unless i paid 4 it .I luv the name Fair Princess,because my little grl gave it to me as a neck name.So thanks a lot ever 1!!!
2006-09-06 13:52:34 · update #1
These people really dont know what they are doing. N they really are f****** up their life. They are the one who would just keep on cribbing and sulking. They are not bad people. It is just the way of their life.
Trust me, if it bothers you, be more involved with them. Be genuinly good to them. Next time, when you would leave the room, they would definitely have somthing good to say bout you.
Remember: Being with them doesnt make you one of them
Cheers! :)
2006-09-06 13:43:58 · answer #1 · answered by Akshat S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
One, those people are afraid to face you. I mean that they'd rather pretend that they like you than to have an argument with you. Either they're afraid of losing you (in this case, they're fooling or lying to the other party) or afraid that they'll give an impression that they're losers since they're a friend of yours for real. Second is that it's a part of their nature to gossip about people. They like talking behind you're back since they find it amusing and entertaining. Third, they'd rather have you as a friend (either for real or even if it's fake) than have you as an enemy. If you're a friend then when they would need your help and that you're the only one who could tend to their needs, they'd rely on you. Since you know that they're nice to you, you'd help them in times of crisis. Lastly, (perhaps the possitive reason) they don't want to hurt your feelings like saying that you're fat, ugly and others but of course, when you're not around they'd criticize and talk about you. I suppose it's just a part of human life. I do that too, honestly, but my reason would be the last one. But I'd rather not go beyond insulting that person when he's not around. Just simply saying my opinion would suffice. Then that's where the line stops. I don't like talking bad things about a person when he's not around. I'd rather tell it to them straight to their face, then and again, I suppose it depends on your relationship to that person.
2006-09-06 20:56:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
People are a s s holes some times and you should stay away from people like that because they aren't really your friends. If it is people that you can't avoid like at work, then you have a different situtaion, I would be looking for another job. For your own mental sanity.
2006-09-06 20:42:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because they have a problem and some people only feel good about themselves when they put others down. Why would you want to be around phonies like these anyway?
2006-09-06 20:43:52 · answer #4 · answered by janetharmon2003 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
People feel as if they know you and have control over whats private and whats not when your not around them. Your true friends will not believe the rumors. Just keep your reputation good so they have nothing bad to say about you
2006-09-06 20:56:16 · answer #5 · answered by laura 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two faced and back stabbers. I eliminated all people like that from my life. I am a lot happier. They didn't know me or they would have known that I wouldn't stay friends with people like that anyway.
2006-09-06 20:47:00 · answer #6 · answered by SouthernBelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change your social circle. Not everyone is like that. Unless the crap these people are talkin' about you ... is true and you being you know .... a hoe and stuff ... limits your options.
2006-09-06 21:22:08 · answer #7 · answered by Sam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gurl i have this problem quite a lot, its just because people are jealous of you and want what you have and they dont have a freakin life to talk about so they go and talk about yours! Its so pathetic!
2006-09-06 20:44:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because there are a lot of very insecure people in this world
2006-09-06 20:43:29 · answer #9 · answered by just me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thar's just life gal. People just feel good talking behind others because they can't be talking their own dirty laundry to others right.
2006-09-06 20:47:22 · answer #10 · answered by peacelover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋