I have been going through troubles lately. My fave e-mail stopped working on Friday. I had to eat lunch at school alone which made me remember how I'm a loner. My sister is dating this stupid boy she met online, and we drove 3hrs just so she could meet him. She's making me a lot more miserable with him. I don't have any friends at school, only online. But I do have people to talk to at school. Boys made me mad by saying stuff they didn't really mean, and they were strong words.
Does anybody know a way I could feel better about my miserable life? I really need help.
2006-09-06 13:34:29 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Cycles. Happens to everyone. Soon the cycle will change and everything will come up roses. Until then, hang in there.
2006-09-06 13:36:15 · answer #1 · answered by Hermit 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
High School is a miserable place. I think it is set up to make us feel inadequate. I was so miserable in high school that I never even wanted to go. I was such a loner that I started pushing people away because It just seemed easier.
All I can tell you is find something you love and learn about yourself. Know yourself so well that you know what makes you happy and do that thing.
When you are happy with yourself people want to be around you. No one wants to be around a sad person. You don't have to be unhappy if you live your life searching for joy instead of wallowing in unhappiness.
You are going to be just fine. Your sister will always be your sister even if she's distracted with a stupid internet boy.
2006-09-06 20:39:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yeah how about this. Things could be a whole lot worse.
You could for example get married to what you think is the perfect woman. Have four wonderful children and just when you think you are about to be at the top of your game... WHAM! She breaks the news that she has cancer, it spreads to her liver and kindey and pancreas.
You practically go into bankruptcy, because she wants more things then she really needs, but you can't say no, because she is dying. You break you *** working overtime, to try to cope. Come home do more work there all to help her out as much as possible. You spend 3 years trying to stay strong, crying like a baby when you are alone.... and then WHAM!
She gets a boyfriend, turns out the cancer was a complete lie. She takes away you kids and encourages them to call her 25 year old boyfriend 'Daddy'.
Thats my life, my oldest just turned 8 on the 4th and my youngest turned 4 today, I got to say happy birthday over the phone.
Life ***** suks... and then you die.
Get used to it.
2006-09-06 20:42:21 · answer #3 · answered by tm_tech32 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The person who said cycles is right. In the meantime, you need to reduce the number of potentially dangerous or emotionally damaging situations you place yourself in. I wouldn't go three hours with my sis to meet an online guy. If she wants to go so bad, she should go with a parent.
Talk to people a little more, take up a new hobby you can be proud of, force yourself to smile till the day it's a real smile. You'll be stronger for it.
2006-09-06 20:39:40 · answer #4 · answered by *babydoll* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Baby girl dont worry about them u be u do what you want ,get a new email I had it really shitty when I was in school too. But when I gave up on wanting to be friends with them and just did me I found happiness and friends found me
2006-09-06 20:40:12 · answer #5 · answered by stacie_collins2001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember: you have thousands of friends in yahoo.God bless you.If you feel alone,sad or miserable(you said that),talk to yahoo friends.Have a beautiful day.
2006-09-06 20:54:37 · answer #6 · answered by cobrasnake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey- you create your own destiny. No one can make
you happy except yourself. YOU have the power to
change your life. Put a smile on your face and pretty
soon, you won't believe how fast your life will change!!
2006-09-06 20:41:38 · answer #7 · answered by saint5nina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look to the seven noble truths of Buddha, they will enlighten you and set you free.....
or just drink a 12 pack of icehouse in half an hour
2006-09-06 20:38:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell your sister how you feel about her and dont worrie about the boys at school and just thing someone will come and talk to you at school one day and just do your everyday thing
2006-09-06 20:40:44 · answer #9 · answered by cassiekennedy2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
spend more time with yourself looking at things that you enjoy. focus on hobbies and try to learn something that you always wanted too. also try learning a new language. forget about this. eventually they will even out.
2006-09-06 20:37:41 · answer #10 · answered by mokcasin 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋