How should I not be embarrassed?

Question

I want to be cool in school but I cant
HELP I AN EGSAUSTED

Answer 1

to be "cool" at school, you have to be 'true' to yourself...which basically means JUST BE YOURSELF!! if other people liek you for who you are thats GREAT!!!...if not its THEIR loss not yours...

hopefully this helps....

caroline xoxo

Answer 2

Heyy, well, don't worry about it; being cool in school or w/e isn't going to determine the rest of your life. You'll get out of school in however many years you will get out ... I have 4 more years to go, and I'm just living it off day-by-day. Don't think of it as something like ... OMG ... 7 more years of torture or whatever, just try to get by as well as you can! And ignore people if they're being @$$holes! Just know that college will be the BEST experience of your life; practically everyone will tell you that ... teachers, parents, etc.! Also, you may want to read the self-help book for teen girls called "No Body's Perfect" ... It deals with issues that cover practically everything we girls have to go through ... from body image, embarassing situations, love, and low self esteem issues ... Besides, why would you want to give up your individuality/personality just to fit in? Conformity is overrated! Just be happy with the friends you have and what you have in life and look forward to the 10-year-reunion that will come up in some years ... when all the preps turn into middle-aged losers ^^" <333 Ohh, and one more thing ... Whenever you're feeling down or w/e or you need to get pumped up before a dance or before school, listen to some good songs or get them stuck in your head! My personal favorite for uhh the past week, hehe, has been "Snakes on a Plane (Bring It)" XD

Answer 3

Sweety, If people don't like you for being yourself, then they are the losers. And if that sounds too cliche for you, then try a new hairstyle(make sure it will look good on your face), ask the hairdresser what he/she suggests. Try a new wardrobe, start wearing a little bit of make up. Start hanging out with different people. The list is endless.

Answer 4

What is the REAL defintion of "cool"? No seriously...think about it...you don't know do you? You just want to be with the in crowd by changing your personality and looks....well your friends love you for who you are why can't you accpet that? Not trying to stress you but think and try to answer those questions and you'll get the answers to that one simple question you just asked.

Answer 5

You are an indivudual, not part of a herd of sheep.
You're exhausting yourself to be "cool"...but what is that really? And why does it embarrass you to BE you? Just let yourself go...let you be you.

God...I can't stand that you're making yourself sick to be like everybody else. It's the unique people that are envied by others, not the cookie cutter kids...be yourself, baby, be yourself.

Answer 6

Honey, why does it 'exhaust' you to be the coolest in school??? I think you should be more preoccupied with making the grade and getting out of there, if anything.

Just be yourself...no one can be "cool". "Cool" is something that has to come naturally. It's those who try too hard be cool that come off looking stupid--

Answer 7

IT'S hard to believe that we live in a world where the majority of people are more concerned with following the crowd than following their heart.

Answer 8

Being cool is something that comes naturally so just be yourself dont try to be something your not or youll look foolish.

Answer 9

To be yourself is all that you can do. (Audioslave) But uhhh try just meeting new friends, there is really no "cool" just try and have fun:)

Answer 10

act like your emo that tends to get you attention from the emo kids or you can eat a'lot and join the football team!!!!