How would you deal with being in a middle school where you feel lonely? Everyone has already formed little groups so it's hard for you to adjust. Not only that but everyone knows you so you can't go up to them and introduce yourself and try to make friends with them. And you really want someone to hang with at school so you don't get too lonely. Also, some of your friends from the year before had changed over the summer and they don't talk to you anymore. Even the people in your class has their own friends in the class and outside that they can hang and talk to, which just leaves you out.
This is your last year at this school but you want to make the most of it by actually having fun and enjoy having someone/people to hang with. What would you do about it?
2006-09-06 13:26:36 · 5 answers · asked by michelleee♥ 5 in Education & Reference ➔ Primary & Secondary Education
Middle School can be though I know I was there an year ago. I was kind of in a some what close situation. I did have a friend, but she was going kind of to sick-o side if you know what I mean. She was always saying all these things about guys and it was disturbing. I mean I ahd a bf and we kept it clean ( as in didn't go beyond making out) . Well any ways my bf broke up to me and went to hang out with my bff, and i didn't like her so i kept away from them. To make a long Story short I was lonely with no best friend.
Since you are in the beggining of the year don't worry things will get better. You sound like you isolate your self from ppl you bearly now. Try talking to some one that sits next to you in home room or study hall or any class. Just talk to ppl even if they are remotely your friends or friends of you ex friends you will be suprised to what happens
2006-09-06 13:29:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is the same thing that happened to me in middle school. I talked to one of the teachers and joined the school newspaper. I got to go around and ask questions for the newspaper and meet everyone and write about it. I made more friends that way. Also, if there is a club, like photography or yearbook or Spanish, you could try joining that.
It'll get better. I promise. Good luck!
2006-09-06 20:29:52 · answer #2 · answered by mamaloo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try joining clubs or sports team .. there a great way to make friends.... and also have self confidence.... it always attracts people. Nobody wants to talk to someone thats not confident
2006-09-06 20:36:42 · answer #3 · answered by aujla_saman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Build your own group, defend the weakest, but above anything never loose your own style and personallity, dont try to be another people to be popular.
2006-09-06 20:36:27 · answer #4 · answered by mfacio 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel that exact way this year(which means im dealing with it also) , what i do i just try to become friends with the ppl that interest me but i agree with mamaloo ,you should try that too.
2006-09-06 20:33:19 · answer #5 · answered by dlc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋