wen usin a tampon r u still considered a virgin? does it hurt? is it b best 2 wait 2 have sex b4 usin tamon?

Question

man my mom wont let me use a tampon becuz im still a virgin and im trynna tell her that even hto im still a virgin i can use them it doesnt make me not a virgin any more whos right me or her?

i think tampons are way more sanitary therefore i should use them

oh and a really big question that i have DOES IT HURT???????????/

Answer 1

I can't believe people still say that!
My daughter's friend's mom told her the same thing.
It does NOT take away your virginity. (Don't be too hard on Mom, she probably heard it from her Mom.)
If you use a "junior" size, you will find them very comfortable. I used tampons from my first period at 16 and I was a virgin until I was married at 22.
When I was younger (teens), I used "regular"- there was no junior size, and I once had to borrow one over my boyfriend's house. His mom used "super". It was a little uncomfortable to use but no pain at all, and once it was in place, I didn't even feel it. (Properly used, you should not feel them once inserted.)

P.S. I wanted to use them because I thought they were way less messy too. If you still can't convince your mom ask her to question the pediatrician. That will surely do the trick!

Answer 2

You are right. Using a tampon is not having sex, therefore you are Not losing your virginity. And to answer your big question. As long as you have it in right you won't feel it. It might take you a couple tries before you get it, but once you do you will know it.

Answer 3

It would be extremely very very rare to lose virginity with a tampon but it can happen. It can happen with a bicycle accident or other kind of accident as well.

I would say Mom is right wait until you are not a virgin that is if the hymen matters to you at all.

Answer 4

Personally, I don't recommend using tampons because they can lead to serious infection if not changed often. You will still be a virgin should you decide to use tampons, but there might be some pain while inserting it because of your "inexperience" or small vaginal opening (hymen). The hymen may rupture a bit, causing some bleeding, but, to answer your question, you will technically be a virgin as you are not having intercourse.

To avoid any pain or TSS (Toxic Shock Syndrome- staph infection involving bacteria and rotten blood), I recommend sticking to the PAD! I believe it's better for menstrual "waste" to flow out of the body and not be stoppered!

Answer 5

You will NOT lose your virginity by using tampons. The only way to lose your virginity basically, is by having sexual intercourse.
And no, it doesn't hurt, just take your time, read the instructions first.

Answer 6

it doesnt hurt if you relax it may be a bit hard ot get in there the first time but ive bin using them since i got my period wen i was 12 so NO it doesnt take your virginity away from u - trust me - my cherry still bled wen i lost my virginity wen i was 16 so u dont need to worry...losing your virginity is considered wen u have sexual penitration

hope this helped

Answer 7

a tampon should not pop your cherry. it should also fit right in. if you feel any discomfort, you should get a better size. tampon have different size.

Answer 8

if you have sex with a guy you're not a virgin. not sex with a tampon.

Answer 9

IT doesn't HURT when applied properly...

VIRGIN = a women who has had SEX with a man... and has been PENETRATED by his PENIS.

Your mom is on drugs.

Answer 10

that does mean you will havto get a smaller size or just change to pads or