my mother does not like my boyfriend at all, she told me that she hates him. I try and ask her why she don't like him and why she always disrespecting him. it got so bad to the point when we almost broke up because of her. 4 years it been nothing but hell with her and she still acts like that towards him. We are about to have our first child and I dont want her to be acting like that when are child is growing up, and not only that I don't want her to brainwash our child by making her not like her own father. How should I really break it down to her?
2006-09-06 13:07:46 · 5 answers · asked by Tiffany R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
OMG if u cant figure out y she hates u u are (and im sory) truely the dumbest person on earth. Im expecting that the birth was an Acident because u still live with your mom so u like 12 or somthing lying bout your age. OMG is this even a serious question. OMG OMG OMG
2006-09-06 13:16:36 · answer #1 · answered by =0 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say that you should have to choose between your boyfriend and mother, but if she can't respect the father of your child, then maybe you shouldn't have much contact with her. What's her deal? Does he treat you bad? Is he financially supportive? Would he be a good father to your unborn child? If he's a good man and your mother is wrong about him, then you need to stand up to your mother and tell her that you can't be around her if she doesn't keep her comments to herself.
2006-09-06 20:13:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Mother's can be so mean at times but when it comes down to it at the end of the day(yeah you in her house) but the only person you have to please is yourself if that means saying F you to everybody including your mother(I'm not saying go say that to your mama if you do say it in yo head I don't want chu to get hit) but forget what your mamas talking about.You don't have to break anything down in words show her (actions speak louder then words)
2006-09-06 21:25:05 · answer #3 · answered by Quita B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that she will not see her grandchild if she continues this because it is too damaging for you and for a child as well as your bf. It might sound mean to tell her that you will not let her see her grandchild, but you have to do something drastic sometimes if it is that serious.
2006-09-06 20:10:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you probably all ready done this but u could tell her that u love him and that he makes u happy, and that if she loved you she would want u 2 be happy! hope this helps
good luck!!!!!!!: )
2006-09-06 20:09:42 · answer #5 · answered by dana 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋