I mean, would you describe it as mildly amusing, incredibly irritating, or have you utterly failed to notice?
I'm not talking about a specific straight male seeing you and hitting on you before finding out you're definitely not interested (or even after that - some guys are really slow).
I'm talking about the tendency among heterosexual males to start salivating AFTER learning your orientation, even though they realize there have a better chance of finding two identical snowflakes in hell than of seeing you naked.
It's incredibly stupid from an evolutionary standpoint, but we're guys; we're used to that.
So, what's your opinion? Silly, annoying, or absolutely don't give a flying fu(k either way?
2006-09-06 12:57:00 · 16 answers · asked by abram.kelly 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Personally it amuses me, especially if im in a club and my girl cant keep her hands off me i notice a lot of males around us dont stand up for quite a while if we have been kissing, i really couldnt give a sh it who sees if they like what they see good on em, although one little perv did ask if we would kiss in the light for him as he couldnt get a good picture on his phone, told him to go find his own woman and if he has trouble satisfying her send her over to us we can hit the spots no man can, my g/f and friends nearly wet themselves and he slunk off and didnt bother us again. so most guys dont annoy me its harmless fun its just the odd one that has to show off in front of his friends or the ones that think all you need is a big dick to straighten you out, (dont get me wrong im quite partial to an experienced penis, but at the moment blissfully happy with my woman and all her bits lol) that get to me, although they end up being the butt of the jokes after i've brought them down to size.
2006-09-06 22:43:21 · answer #1 · answered by beepbeep 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys want what they can't have, pure and simple. I'm a guy, but I've never been attracted to a lesbian after I've found out their orientation. I've gone out drinking with a few, though, and they drank me under the table every single time. You're more like buddies than sex objects.
2006-09-06 13:01:56 · answer #2 · answered by Levi T 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
LOL, babycakes, you hit the nail on the head. If it makes your panties wet, then stare on. Like you said, they've got no chance. I mean, if you know you are in the back of the line to have a go at me and you still want to buy me a drink, I see no problem. I don't feel bad for the guy who knows it and still gets mad though.
2006-09-06 13:32:45 · answer #3 · answered by Phedre D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
loosen up, end irritating, basically enable this concern take its direction. confident this is obtainable, properly its got here approximately to you and is the reason on your confusion it is extremely organic as you have programmed your self into purely being a lesbian. some thing that intrigues me with the homophobes, they condemn some thing they be attentive to no longer something approximately, i be attentive to this is a splash extreem yet how does a guy be attentive to what this is like having intercourse with a guy? how does a female be attentive to what it is like having intercourse with a female till they have tried it, So do my commonplace undertaking, forget approximately attempting to label your self, be your self and start to get exhilaration from life, with a guy or with a female (it is your inner maximum company) sturdy luck
2016-10-14 09:49:35 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi. I hope you find my answer. I think you are very interesting to ask this. So much of it depends on the guy. And so many of you are a pain, straight or gay. You all are just a real pain. But there are a few, a brave few, who are cool. I think you just might be one.
2006-09-06 14:23:02 · answer #5 · answered by Isis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it's hilarious but when they start nagging you to make out with some girl so they can get turned on it drives me crazy and i can't stand their ignorance. I'm happy for guys to ask silly questions like why are you gay what makes you gay how do you have sex when you don't have a dick. that's all fun and games but when they don't seem to shut up about it. then i get annoyed.
2006-09-06 18:23:31 · answer #6 · answered by angelic_devil30 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i recently came out that i was bi, and guys that i knew for a long time that werent interested suddenly were, and i got pretty offended. i didnt apreciate the "oo, can i join in? *wink wink*" what made them think i turned into a mega slut porn star all of a sudden? talk about never finding a serious date again, im thinking of stearing clear of the straight guys.
2006-09-06 13:14:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It really does piss me off. I'm bi, so I always get the request for a threesome. It's never asking for a threesome, it's more like offering a threesome, like it's the very best thing to be in the company of him and his tramp. I always say that my sexuality is not for their viewing pleausre. They never get the point though.
2006-09-06 14:05:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, at first it's kind of amuseing. But after the third "come on baby you know you want it" or "Are you sure I can't change your mind" or "can I watch" then it just gets really annoying. Cause no, you can't watch, no you can't change my mind, no I won't do your girlfriend, and yes I'm sure that I'm not bi.
2006-09-06 13:02:49 · answer #9 · answered by NoBoysAllowed! 3 · 8⤊ 0⤋
Oh it's just a hormone, sexual thing. I ignore it. It's not worth my time fretting over it.
2006-09-06 15:12:33 · answer #10 · answered by Amma's Child 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋