Is it possible for a homosexual man and homosexual woman could develop heterosexual feelings towards each other. And if so, would they be victimized by the homosexual community for acting on heterosexual feelings.
Additionally, is it possible some homosexuals get confused by heterosexual feelings and suppress them?
2006-09-06 12:48:49 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
if someone is gay or lesbian it means they dont develop feelings or want to have sex with the opposite sex
if they do have sexual feelings and attraction to the opposite sex, it means they are bisexual.
2006-09-06 14:27:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everything is possible, sure two separate gendered people can develop sexual feelings for each other despite being or believing that they are gay.
And yes they would probably be ostracized by militant homosexual groups. Unfortunately it is becoming more and more clear that minority groups will go on the attack when their position in society is challenged or opposed. Opposed not by racists means but by means of a different value/belief system. They seem to have very little tolerance for the right of others to have different feelings or thoughts from their own.
Who would be attacked more a straight person having gay feelings or a gay person having straight feelings? Seems by asking the question you have some very real concerns and it seems those groups are not very healthy or safe when the implied threat is there.
In answer to your addition, yes it is possible to get confused and suppress ones heterosexual feelings but why would you suppress such strong feelings? What if it's the other way around and the individuals were confused at a young age and thought they were gay when they were not. Now as they are older they realize that it was only a faze and those feelings need not be suppressed. You can look at it from both sides and then make your own call to chose what is right for you
2006-09-06 20:14:25 · answer #2 · answered by Brutal honesty is best 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe in hollywood but somehow I doubt it ever happening in real life. Their sexual inclinations are so far removed from each other that the mental shift required would be extreemely difficult for one, let alone two people to manage. IF and that's a huge IF similar in size to King Kong, it did happen (we're talking hell freezing over and pigs flying backwards) then they would not be victimized by the homosexual community, we're far too tolerant to be so petty. We'd probably say something like "Oh my God" mock shock horror quickly followed by "but who's f**king who?" and make a big joke out of it. As for getting confused/suppressing hetrosexual feelings ..... LOL ..... never, well unless you're talking about the recurring fantasy I have involving two straight men, does that count?
2006-09-06 20:10:37 · answer #3 · answered by God 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
welll I always operate on the theory that sexuality is a sliding scale say 1-100 and nobody is 1 or 100...and that people can also move around on this scale a few points one way or the other....loving someone is completely different sometimes from sex...but sex and love can be easily confused because they overlap so much. I think that lots of homosexuals have heterosexual thoughts...they just don't necessarily want to complete the act..ie the thoughts are fleeting.
2006-09-06 20:00:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First part, yes, I think it's possible for such feelings to develop. And if those people became victimized by the homosexual community, then it would make said community no better than those heterosexual people who bash homosexuals for their feelings they cannot help.
2006-09-06 19:53:59 · answer #5 · answered by kimilou2001 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have feelings for women all the time....so what? And there are times when I act on them..so what. I am certainly not confused. I know where I am at about 70% of the time, which is a better average than most, I suppose. Are you going to bash me because I think Women can be great? I didn't think so. I think that everyone does what they want, should be very relaxed about it, get rid of their hang ups, and go on through life happy. I try, I do , and sometimes I fail..so what.
2006-09-06 20:38:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
???? If they have feelings, maybe they are bisexual or just aren't really homosexual. Unless they are already in a relationship and could potentially hurt and confuse someone else (Hey, I decided today that I like women, sorry), why should anyone have a problem with it.
2006-09-06 19:51:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would seriously doubt that it would happen unless the people were actually bisexual. No matter how much I may personally care for a female, I am not sexually interested under any circumstances. Period. Would the Gay community "go after them"? No, not unless they suddenly went "ex-gay movement" against the gay community.
2006-09-06 20:10:23 · answer #8 · answered by IndyT- For Da Ben Dan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suppose all of those things are possible, but I don't think that they are very likely. If that happened I don't think they would necessarily be victimized, but maybe teased a lot.
2006-09-06 19:56:38 · answer #9 · answered by NoBoysAllowed! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure it's possible on all accounts of your question. The incidents of such are as rare as hen's teeth.
2006-09-06 19:52:27 · answer #10 · answered by Cymalon 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋