My bf broke up with me and i loved him soo much.I sacraficed everything for him,and all he cares bout is himself.i would add more but im too sad.Plz what should i do i dont know what more i can do...i've been suicidal,and now all i want is to die.I've lost everyone so i feel as if i should end myself.i dunno what to do anymore.
2006-09-06 12:13:14 · 12 answers · asked by ramlover_92 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If he only cares about himself and you would do all that you did for him, then he doesn't deserve. he sounds selfish and you are selfless. Sometimes it is good to be a little selfish, but not too much. Just cry it helps balance out your emotions, then go see or do something that will make you laugh. Enjoy your life, there is always someone for someone and if there is one less life then that is 1 million unhappy people.
2006-09-06 12:18:09 · answer #1 · answered by masterurownmind 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie you are at a cross road at the moment you are looking back at what you had, it feels like you have been left behind and your guy has moved on , But over the next crest there may be this wonderful new life or perhaps this selfish fool will look back to that crossing and decide to chase after you again . . life is a journey and you are just beginning don't get off the bus and fall by the way just dust your self off and look to your future happiness,
don't think that this break up is the end look at it as a clean start , you will hurt and it may take a while but to end your life is final and such a loss for all those that know you ,
I recently lost a good friend ( and I have to say this ... and If i was there I want you to know that I would be screaming this to you )
It your life and in time you are going to have had children and your parents are going to love your child as they love you . you are going to see your grow and see that child hurt like this and you will be able to say this to them I had my heart smashed by a guy that didn't know what he meant to me and sweetie you will rise from your pain you will dust your self off and make a great and fulfilling life for your self .
2006-09-06 19:50:12 · answer #2 · answered by slick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to ask for help is to look in a phone book and look for a hospital. You can find the best one that you w/ your insurance can afford and place yourself in as a voluntary patient. Nothing anyone is going to say is going to change your mind. Please do this for yourself and seek help. Once your suicidal you have to go into a hospital because one second you could be fine and next minute you'll be dead. You love yourself enough to ask for help from us please go the rest of the way and pick up the phone. God bless you I know what I'm talking about I was suicidal as a teen and just trust me I know. It won't really help at this moment but I just want to let you know that sometimes it takes months sometimes years but there is sunshine that will fall on your face and a beautiful world not far behind it.
2006-09-06 19:26:13 · answer #3 · answered by nm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No Man is worth ending your life. I know when my x broke up with me I thought I would never get through it but now I know that things happen for a reason. Someone else worth my time came along. He changed my life and now we are married. You need to think about urself and be happy with yourself. You don't need a man to bring you down. He should enrich your life and then you know he is worth ur time. Just look at it as if this guy did u a favor by breaking up with you. It is his lose and you deserve better. Keep your head up and don't ever give up. Better things will come and u'll look back on this as a learning experience. I know I have been there.
2006-09-06 19:32:52 · answer #4 · answered by Grace Q. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in the exact situation about a year ago. All I can tell you is to let time pass and stay as busy as you can. Go out with friends (In my case I had to start over cuz i was with him so much i lost my friends) Join groups or take a kickboxing class or something like that. I GUARANTEE you that once time has passed you'll find a good guy. Take it as his loss, be strong. I must admit that I still love him but in a different way now, its never gonna go away I just learned to accept it. You live and you learn. Take it as a learning experience. You'll find a good guy when you least expect it. Good luck! Stay positive.
2006-09-06 19:20:39 · answer #5 · answered by luvz2luv_ya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The person who you describe (your BF) doesn't worst even one of your tear, so why you sacrifice for him? No die, no even cry...
And remember PEOPLE LOVE YOU SO MUCH HOW MUCH YOU LOVE YOUR SELF. if you don't like your self and even want to die how you expect somebody else love you? You are most close your friend.... Stand up for your self and start to love your self and they all Will come for you.... Really I been close to your situation believe me... after some time you will smile when remember how stupid you was....
And go out - talk to people, you will describe there is another world out there .... find nice friend, activities, or start to do something creative (it helps - I took painting classes)
2006-09-06 19:20:54 · answer #6 · answered by Lusy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to someone about how you are feeling. Talk to someone in your church, school, a close relative. Tell them how you feel and ask them if they will help you find some help. You need to focus on you for right now. If you're not in a mentally stable mindset then you aren't able to be in a healthy relationship.
2006-09-06 19:18:40 · answer #7 · answered by OohLaLa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, you can hold on. he's not worthy of you . men break your heart just when they know they have you it's like some of them get a kick out of it . love yourself for a change as much as you loved him . start doing some fun things for your self , call your girl friend that you haven't been able to spend time with & go to a movie.do not think another thought of killing yourself that is not an option , jesus christ is there for you just waiting for you to call on him. he loves you dearly & cares about every hair on your head. you are worthy to him. he only wants good things for you.get your bible out & read in psalms , he will carry you thru any problem , there isn't any problem that he doesn't know how you are feeling & he is just waiting to love on you , all you have to do is ask him into your heart right now because you don't want to go on like you have been living & he will hear your cry . if you have a pastor call him or his wife or a godly friend because jesus loves you so much ,he died for you & now he wants you to live for him. i will be praying for you . please think on these things in jesus name
2006-09-06 19:29:03 · answer #8 · answered by joyous believer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try talking to some of your old friends or your family. In many cases, your old friends or family may surprise you and want you to contact them. If you can't do that, find some counseling.
2006-09-06 19:19:48 · answer #9 · answered by btij06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You want to kill yourself over a man???? girl get a grip on yourself!! he is not worth it.. you better go get some professional help right away. i know you are stronger than this!!! everytime a man breaks your heart,,,are you going to want to commit suicide??? lord have mercy you have got to be joking me. smarten up,,,life is full of heart breaks,,,so get used to it.
2006-09-06 19:22:31 · answer #10 · answered by michelle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋