Basically we work different shifts and don't see eachother that much, he has a chance to come home for once early and he says that, instead of saying, well why don't we go to the beach or something. Also we quite smoking greens about a month ago, and if we ever had weed, he would have no problem coming home and hanging out, but now that we don't he really doesn't care about seeing me. We have been together for almost 3 years, how would you feel girls, and guys am I over reacting, he kinda made me cry.
2006-09-06 12:07:25 · 11 answers · asked by Mary Jane 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You are not over reacting,[as long as you are not screaming and yelling].Now that weed is out of the picture you may not have much in common any more.He may not know what to do now. Develop some of your own interests with some open ended for him to join you. Good luck. Grandma
2006-09-06 12:13:44 · answer #1 · answered by nancy e 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It wouldn't make me cry, I'd realize what his priorities are. If, after 3 years, he figures that his work is more important then I'd dump him on the spot. Why stay with a guy that would rather work than be with you? Not worth the water works dear.
2006-09-06 12:09:56 · answer #2 · answered by winds_of_justice 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe there never was a relationship there, the weed was masking the lack of a relationship. No harm, no foul, face the music and move on. You don't owe anyone entertainment when they walk through the door.
2006-09-06 12:09:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry but he told you everything you needed to know.
It is on you to change it now.
You can either make a last time effort to work things out or ditch him now and save time.
2006-09-06 12:12:54 · answer #4 · answered by retrodesignerdeals 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like the makings of a very bad marriage.
Time to cut & run, girl.
2006-09-06 12:10:53 · answer #5 · answered by Jay 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bummer- yeah I would be hurt but you have to look at the circumstances surrounding the comment. LOL
2006-09-06 12:12:08 · answer #6 · answered by Dre 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitly YES that is so wrong. Tell him to back to work and make you more money..... While he is working you can shop
2006-09-06 12:12:03 · answer #7 · answered by 2strongfor2long 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes that is mean that means that he doesnt want to be around you talk to him tell him how you feel.
2006-09-06 12:11:03 · answer #8 · answered by aohottie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's probably at his other girlfriend's house that has weed.
2006-09-06 12:09:31 · answer #9 · answered by Process Guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ditch the loser.
2006-09-06 12:09:34 · answer #10 · answered by rhiannon2797 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋