My girlfriend is 45 I,m 47.She has been going thru a lot of stress and said she needs time for her to sort things out. She said she doesn,t like who she is now. Zero libido.we haven,t had sex in a long time but she likes to ask me detailed questions about her and i and just me. When the time comes should i be more gentle or initiate the moves.Giving her time is killing me.I love her dearly and know we would make a great married couple.She is also pre menopausal.
2006-09-06 11:58:47 · 4 answers · asked by John 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Maybe she is stressing because you haven't asked her to marry you. That could also account for the libido. I would be gentle about intiating anything. Pre-menopausal, she is probably wondering if she has accomplished what she wants to in life. And if shes never been married- she might be upset about htat. If you think shes good for you, maybe ask her?
2006-09-06 12:12:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with your idea, it is a great one, be gentle and initiate the moves (& be well lubricated). If she is going thru menopause, watch out. I haven't reached that time yet so I hear you about your girl. Good luck.
2006-09-06 12:04:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the greatest gift you can give her right now is space. You should still do little things like buy her flowers or leave little love cards on her pillow. Try giving her a massage and tell her no strings attached and mean it! (unless of course it gets her in the mood and SHE wants to) Female hormone issues suck, let me tell you!!..lol....if she continues to have problems suggest she sees her OB/GYN for some advice.
2006-09-06 12:05:44 · answer #3 · answered by silver 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go have your balls cut off and see what you will be like
2006-09-06 12:03:36 · answer #4 · answered by del b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋