my boyfriend of 6 years got my EX bestfriend pregnant i dont know if i should let them be together or not but we have a child together too
2006-09-06 11:55:52 · 26 answers · asked by Smily 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
but if hes willing to change his ways ill let him see the kid but he can kiss my ***
2006-09-06 12:07:40 · update #1
oh god how could u even think of forgiving a crap who nobody else but got ur very best friend laid???come'on....firstly i would like to ask ur child is out of marriage or just an affair?i mean obviously he is ur boyfriend not ur husband,so r u still single?
2006-09-06 12:11:33 · answer #1 · answered by taani k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry this happened to you but now is the time to make an important decision.
He has been your boyfriend for circa 6 years and now he has your ex-girlfriend pregnant?
Hmm. Think about it. They both lied to you, deceived you in the most terrible way, and you still don't know if you should let them be together. Yes they should be together. They deserve each other. They would make a perfect pair. Two liars together.
As for you. Treat yourself with respect and have dignity. You have a child and you will find someone who appreciates you without cheating on you and maybe potentially infecting you with a disease.
He can still be a father to your child but that should be the extend of the relationship.
Of course nobody can tell you what to do and ultimately you must make your own decision but he will do this again.
2006-09-06 19:09:04 · answer #2 · answered by retrodesignerdeals 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean if YOU should LET them be together????
That's NOT your decision! And even IF it was... why on earth would you want a cheating liar like that????
Once a cheater, always a cheater!
Move on, but just be sure to get child support out of him.
2006-09-06 19:08:41 · answer #3 · answered by ♫☼♥ ≈ Debbi ≈ ♥☼♫ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they want to be together then you should not interfere. Just make sure he pays for the child you have together. He needs to pay for half of all the expences of the child. He seems to be digging a hole he is going to regret. Dont put yourself in his hole.
2006-09-06 19:02:14 · answer #4 · answered by Tool 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a real winner. So does she. Avoid both of them. But be sure to get child support.
2006-09-06 18:58:21 · answer #5 · answered by phoenixheat 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay, you have an everybody loses situation.
Your boyfriend is not good for you or your child. You will not be able to trust him. So unless you're into polygamy you need to break-up.
2006-09-06 18:59:48 · answer #6 · answered by Dr. D 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want him any more? He's a cheating son of a b@#&h !!! There are so many good guys out their that will love you and your baby. Just keep looking. ( I married a girl with two kids my self.)
2006-09-06 19:03:13 · answer #7 · answered by stuymac 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to decide whether you want this person to still be part of you and your childs life........once you make that decision let him do as he pleases....really if you decide to stay with him do you think you could trust him again.
if you decide to give him the flick who cares what he does. and if your best friend is happy to have him....well really she is no friend at all.
2006-09-06 18:58:58 · answer #8 · answered by askaway 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can sure pick them. Dump the guy, he will never do you any good. Raise your child, and don't date until your child is 18.
2006-09-06 18:58:00 · answer #9 · answered by kimmyisahotbabe 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let him be with her and move on make sure he pays child support and stays involved with your child NOT YOU!
2006-09-06 19:07:18 · answer #10 · answered by njredgrl32 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋