Okay she is 17 and im 20, we had a relationship but we kept it as a secret because maybe my cousin would be bothered that i was goin out with his daughter, iven if he shudn't because he's daughter is only a far familiar of me and there is nothing wrong with us going out. Anyway do you think the rest of the family would mind that she is pregnant? Should i tell them or not?
Thanks 4 understanding me folks.
2006-09-06 11:21:54 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You are asking if the rest of the family will mind that this 17 year old is pregnant? Of course they will mind....she's 17!!!
Should you tell them? She should tell her family and you should be there to support her.
2006-09-06 11:29:24 · answer #1 · answered by Jessica 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
First you were wrong to start a relationship with her . Now that you know that she is going to have a child that is the result of the two of you being horny, it would be best if first the two of you sit down and discuss the type of future that you what first for yourselves individually and then discuss what the two of you want for the child that you have formed. Do you want to continue to betray yourselves as well as the rest of your family members and hide things from them that they will discover sooner or later. Don't you think that enough behind the back stuff has gone on for too long as it is. It is time for you to be a man or at least start accepting the responsibility that you did something that was wrong and may also be illegal but at least own up to what you are dealing with. No matter what family will know.
Good luck and I hope and Pray that the two of you make the right decision at least for the sake of the baby.
2006-09-06 18:32:06 · answer #2 · answered by mrssimmonsbey@yahoo.com 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you kept it a secret because you knew the family wouldn't understand. it is her body what does the 17 year old girl want to do? have the baby and keep it, give it up for adoption or abortion? are you prepared to pay child support? get married? be forbidden from seeing her again by the family? do you love her or was it a booty call? were you drunk? did you just not use birth control? what were your reasons for sleeping with a cousin? the family will want answers to these questions
2006-09-06 18:31:12 · answer #3 · answered by rwl_is_taken 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
first off, a 20 yr old having sex with a 17 yr old is statutory rape, regardless if it was consensual or not. her parents can have you arrested and brought up on charges.
second, you kept it secret because at some level you were ashamed. figure out what you were ashamed about and i think you'll have your answer.
2006-09-06 18:38:16 · answer #4 · answered by buffysummers 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If it's your cousins daughter then you've been doing your cousin. Yes the girl is your cousin...no mater what you think. How's it feel going to family reunions to meet girls?
2006-09-06 21:27:58 · answer #5 · answered by westfield47130 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell your family. They will find out sooner or later anyway. Good luck. If they love you they will get over it.
2006-09-06 18:27:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
"If you go to family reunions to meet women you might be a redneck!" by Jeff Foxworthy. Just confess what you did and be a man.
2006-09-06 18:32:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
look if you love her truly or not there is ababy coming so both of you should face your family bravely for his sake build your life to be proud of you as afather if it girl call here nada as me wish for you all luck
2006-09-06 18:31:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You won't be able to hide it much longer. Like it or not, they are going to have do deal with it. Pony Up!
2006-09-06 18:25:39 · answer #9 · answered by JillA 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Obviously they will mind. C'mon you had your cousin's daughter pregnant while she is only 17....... hello.....??
2006-09-06 18:27:03 · answer #10 · answered by skepty 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋