im 5'3 and 117lb. i m really scared. i want 2 get people to notice me. i don't attract anyone but only 1 boy. i'm 12 in th 7th grade. i need tips on weight. i want boys to notice me. HELP!!
2006-09-06 10:30:27 · 17 answers · asked by black24mail 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body
chill girl u have plenty of time. but I'm 16 and i was the same way when i was twelve so let me give u some advice....don't focus on the negatives such as ur weight (by the way ur not fat ur just pleasantly plump and when u get older u'll realize a lot of guys like a little junk in the trunk ^_^) but instead focus on ur best features and highlight them. if u have nice eyes try on a little light shimmering eye shadow, if u have nice lips try a nice gloss, if u have i bustier figure try not to where really high neck lines like turtle necks but don't wear plunging necklines either. hope it works out for u!
2006-09-06 10:43:19 · answer #1 · answered by scooby_chick101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You aren't fat at ALL! That's like the perfect weight for your size and height. Also when you're in middle school, you're weight is going to fluctuate up and down because you're growing and you're body is trying to find the right size for everything. If you want boys to notice you, start making friends with them! If you're nervous it's okay because everyone is having the same feelings. Just talk to them and be easygoing, boys are so much nicer and less intimidating than girls.
2006-09-06 17:44:34 · answer #2 · answered by I L♥VE YOU! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're too young to be so obsessed with looking good for boys. Believe me, you're not fat. You may have a little extra meat, but any form of regular exercise should take that off. If you start molding your body based on guys, then you will never be happy, because each boy is different in what they like.
2006-09-06 17:35:48 · answer #3 · answered by sillylittlemen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all your not fat. Second of all you dont need make a guy notice you. Just be yourself around people. And trust me if you eat right and excerise you will lose some weight. But you dont really need to worry about your weight that much. When you get older and start to get taller most of that weight will start to form. So dont worry about it and just have fun while your still in middle school.
2006-09-06 17:35:40 · answer #4 · answered by missdominicana22 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're a perfectly healthy weight, that's nothing to be scared of. If you get over 135 anytime soon then maybe start a health regimen.
Other than that it never hurts to exercise, but why do you want to attract boys when you're 12?...I highly doubt they'll marry you :P.
Aside from that tips on attracting people are to just be yourself, be open with them and be friendly. Act interested in their hobbies and their lives. Fake it if you have to.
Also have to agree with care, it's girls personalities that get me interested in them :)
2006-09-06 17:40:57 · answer #5 · answered by Startoshadows 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give yourself a little time. Your body is changing and lumps and bumps that you think are fat may melt awaay as your hormon levels change. Boys your age are probably noticing you but are afraid to show it, give them some time to deal with and understand the changes they are going through also. Seventh grade is probably the hardest year you may ever have so try not to stress too much, have as much fun as you can and learn to love yourself first.
2006-09-06 17:43:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
By what you write, you are not fat, what's happening is that you are most likely bigger than the majority of the boys in your grade level. Just give it some time, the boys will finally catch up, don''t worry. You should be in no hurry you are still too young for this.
2006-09-06 18:00:32 · answer #7 · answered by ???///??? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What school do you go to I am 12 also I go to Ruffner Academy and no you are not fat if you were 130lbs you would be considered over the ideal weight.And if the boys don't like you now that's there loss when they see your sparkleing personality you say'Sorry i'm taken.
2006-09-06 17:36:25 · answer #8 · answered by tahkeyah k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, it's not your weight that is the problem, it is your lack of confidence. Boys want to see girls that are secure with themselves and positive, not obsessing over weight, who seem insecure. You don't need tips on weight, you need tips on building up your self esteem and confidence. Take care : )
2006-09-06 18:19:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It DOESN'T matter what you look like. Having a shining personality and confidence is what will get people to notice you. Putting yourself out there and being friendly will get you noticed, and that's WAY more important than being skinny.
2006-09-06 17:40:05 · answer #10 · answered by Care 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋