learning diffecltes?

Question

if a person with learning diffecultes like me i have dislexsea and epilepsay and becouse of that your family say thay dont want you and for the rest of your life treat you like crap what should you do i want to move but i feel like my mum and family have me on rains and want let me do anything iam at collage the now trying to prove my self wrong and theam wrong but its not working what else should i do HELP ME?

Answer 1

Your already proving yourself wrong by going to college, who are your family to tell you that they don't want you, if i was you that would make me more determined to prove exactly what you can do, it's not even a case of proving yourself wrong you will prove yourself right only you know what ambition and determination is inside you and you only think bad of yourself because you have been told bad by family. Keep strong and keep positive its so easy to give up when your feeling down, i don't personally have any difficulties but i am living with post natal depression so i know how bad it feels when other people tell you or make you feel like your not good enough try your best at college, speak to your college mentor and maybe look into a group of similar people to go and enjoy yourself with, or maybe you could look into starting up your own meeting place, your already half there coming on answers your life is special and its yours to live please don't let anyone destroy your spirit once you have qualifications some doors may open for you, get some advice i bet your not alone in the way you are feeling. Keep strong, do your best and you will be surprised on how differently you may feel when the time comes. But in the meantime well done for making that step by going to college xx

Answer 2

I have looked at your other questions and answers, and yes you do have a problem, this problems seems worse when you are upset or exited about some thing. So try to slow down and be calm before you write and think exactly what you want to say

Make sure your tutors at collage know and they will help you get statemented and you will get extra help and time in exams. Always run the spell check before you post something this will eventually get you to recognise the correct spelling of some of the more common words.

Collage may also be able to help you with counselling where they could help you know how to handle the family situation and my also help your family understand you.

Answer 3

How old are you? If you are over 16 then you can move out and would probably get some help from some sort of agency that specialises in helping young people with health problems gain independence. If you are under 16 and you feel like your life at home is not very nice maybe you could talk to a teacher or something about changing this. good luck xx

Answer 4

Hi,

You have to realise that your family have their opinion and their opinion of you is wrong, but its not your job it change their opinion. Your job is to do the best that you can in order to achieve your own personal goals.

Stop measuring yourself by their expectations of you. And don't believe them when they say you're not good enough or you disappoint them. As I said before, they are wrong. It hurts to think your family isn't proud of you but you just have to deal with it and not let it bring you down.

I hope you are doing subjects at college that you enjoy and really want to turn into a career, and you're not doing subjects just to prove your family wrong. Because you cant let their negative feelings influence the choices you make in life.

As for feeling restricted by your mum, you can do anything you want in life, her negativity is whats stopping you and if you change how you interpret that then you are free to do what you like.

Keep working hard, make sure you're getting all the support you need at college for your learning difficulties, don't do things just to prove people wrong when you don't have to because its wasted mis-directed energy.

And have faith in yourself and don't listen to negativity, they're wrong when they put you down.

Answer 5

Sweetheart, your parents aren't you and you really mustn't let their opinion of you affect how you feel about yourself.

So you can't write very well. Big deal. I'm hopeless with numbers and I can't for the life of me draw anything that you'd recognise. We're all different and that's exactly as it should be.

I realise that this IS a problem for you and would hate for you to feel patronised but really, the only person's opinion of you that matters is your own. Luckily, that's also the only one you're in control of.

Whatever you do in life, do it for yourself.

Answer 6

Thats so sad, i can clearly tell you are telling the truth because of how you wrote, im at college too - dont be too hard on yourself because even I find it hard

If you really need to talk to someone call child line 0800 1111

Also, because you have dyslexia, make sure the learning body know of this because they have to help you - THEY HAVE TO, it is a right, so dont refuse that, it will equal you out with everyone else.

trust me, they can help you get things off your chest and think things through :-)

Answer 7

speak to your social worker and ask them about supported living,you have a lot of rights now dependant upon your age.ask for a copy of the white paper published about 2000/2001 it will give you a lot of info,also there are a lot of social care agencies that you can have access to,it's your choice so make it!.good luck

Answer 8

You need help and support. Ask student services at college. They'll know the best advice to give.

Answer 9

hang on in there you are what you are if your family cannot accept that move on i hope you prove them wrong i wish you the best of luck be happy my friend

Answer 10

. . . this has got to be a joke . . .