WHAT SHOULD I DO??!! I THINK IM MORE ATTRACTED TO WOMEN THAN I AM TO MEN
2006-09-06 09:34:19 · 33 answers · asked by sogullablegurly 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
100% be true to yourself,, never settle.
don't settle to be with men becuase that's what society wants,,
do what makes you most happy!!!
From one bi chic to another there's nothing like kissing a girl!!! It's amazing
2006-09-06 09:36:32 · answer #1 · answered by B V 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well Kimber was talking about this too. But her man doesn't know. This is the answer I gave her:
90% of men get steamed up about the idea of two women together, and don't feel threatened by the idea of their woman doing it with another woman.
Even so putting your desires into practice might endanger your relationship with your man. Many men fantasize about joining in with two women together. Not surprisingly I think that not many women would welcome such an intrusion. Even so that might be the price you will have to pay if you want to fulfil your lesbian desires.
I am a bisexual male. I have had to learn to accept that I cannot fulfil my gay desires with other men. This has been quite difficult. Even so my wife has accepted certain compromises (although these do not include the presence of another man in the marital bed) and we more or less manage to keep things in balance.
2006-09-06 09:44:31 · answer #2 · answered by Augusta B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Decide. Keep quiet and keep him, or tell him and consider that he may leave you. Your girlfriends won't give you babies, but they will be there to help you with the babies. If you've got a good man to be the father of your children, then you know the price for keeping him--silence. Since you "haven't yet" how do you know that losing the father of your children is worth some time with the girls that is more than mere time with the girls?
One approach is to casually mention one of your friends. "What do you think about Cathy? I think Cathy is really hot [or cool, or cute or whatever] what do you think?" Then describe what you really like about her. He will get curious at the line of questioning and that will give you opportunity to say, "Um, maybe I like her more, or in more ways than I should, sorry." If he takes it easy, the ice has been broken and he will talk to you more. If not, well, the issue is out in the open and he will tell how he feels.
2006-09-06 10:02:53 · answer #3 · answered by Rabbit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well are you trully bi? or just curious? From how it sounds it would seem you are just curious about women, if you haven't been with woman. But if you really are bi and been with both sexes and you still want to be with a woman, then talk to your bf about all these feelings that you are going through and if he is understanding at all he should understand and love you enough to let you be yourself rather its with him or not. And if he still doesn't agree, just say you will still love him, but you have to do what is best for you. That will also keep you from cheating on him and him getting hurt worse later on down the road.
2006-09-06 09:39:57 · answer #4 · answered by Bloody Kisses 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think I should start a club for bisexual women who are committed to men. I know how you feel. It's really hard. Some women just get a "best friend" wink wink. Know what I mean. Some just have threesomes. Some leave their men. But mostly many are stuck in a torn spot. They want to be with a woman, but they don't want to have a threesome because they are afraid it will ruin the relationship. And they don't want to leave the man because they know he loves them so much it would crush him.
2006-09-06 09:41:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Careful on how you approach this. You could really hurt your boyfriend, and bring out alot of insecurties in him.
See if he's open to this sort of thing, but do it very open mindedly. Your relationship may end depending on his reaction.
BUT, if that does happen, it most likely wouldn't have worked anyways. You would have always been having secret thoughts and desires, and maybe even act upon them behind his back.
Honesty is the best policy I believe in a relationship, just approach the situation delicatly.
2006-09-06 12:42:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok you say he knows you are bi so why don't you and him find a woman that you both think is sexy and have a threesome so you can find out what you really want and you are not hurting him in the mean time ........ Good Luck
2006-09-06 10:28:58 · answer #7 · answered by sxypiggy2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In order for you to get a better understanding of what ur going thru you need to experience another women, that way you can decide what's for you and what's not. Right now it's just an attraction......It's okay to be who you are......Don't label urself, ur not bi........ur curious. Do some soul searchin hun.
2006-09-06 09:48:38 · answer #8 · answered by shanasterms 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Bring the subject up to him. It is most men's fantasies to have a threesome with two other women. If your more into just the woman, see if he would mind just watching.
And, if you enjoy women more than men, you can always break it off with him and find yourself a woman.
2006-09-06 09:36:38 · answer #9 · answered by Kevin J 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, first off, you have a problem. I think there's no such thing as Bi, it's really promiscuity and mess-up in your sexual orientation department. So I say you go with either men or lezbos. But in this case since you said you're more attracted to women then please go with women lezbians and stop messing around with heterosexual world and leave the straight women alone. Don't brainwash them thinking it's normal to be bi/lez or any homo crap. BECAUSE IT'S NOT NATURAL NO MATTER WHAT YOU GUYS ARE TRYING TO BRAINWASH US!
2006-09-06 09:39:07 · answer #10 · answered by Believe me 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋