Me and my girlfriend, we where hugging and kissing, and then suddenly she just kneed me in the crotch!!!. She just stood there laughing while I was on the floor. Then when I finally got up, still in shock, she started saying how sorry she was, but still giggling, and I could swear she got sexually aroused by what she did. I just left without saying a word.
How could she done that to me, after all we went through together. I had no idea she could be a sex offender. And now she is constantly sending me messages to my mobile phone saying she is sorry, but I don’t think she is, and even if she was, nothing could be the same again. How about if I rape her and then say I am sorry, some things just have no turning back.
What do you think I should do?
2006-09-06 09:25:25 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Is she young? It sounds like she's really immature. I don't know why she would have thought this was funny, but you are right to put your foot down. Don't allow this to continue! There are plenty of men out there, who are abused by women. It is wrong, just like a man abusing a woman. Tell her you will not tolerate this and if it ever happens again, you're out of there. Stop it now, before it gets any worse.(seems like she needs to grow up)If it continues, you may want to end the relationship.
2006-09-06 09:37:19 · answer #1 · answered by feathereafter 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey, don't take it so seriously, maybe she was just trying to add some spice to your relationship or maybe she's angry at you for some reason you don't know and this was her way of showing you... talk to her and ask her why she did that. if you are patient enough, you will get the true answer eventually...
as for the rape part... hold your horses! first of all, if she's your girlfriend and you want to have sex with her I'm pretty sure you can find the means to convince her rather than force her into it...
second of all, and most important, try not to see this as an unforgivable act! anything and everything is forgivable, take my word for it. I'm not saying you shouldn't feel hurt or betrayed by what she did... you feel what you feel and there is little you can do about it. but what I'm saying is to give her another chance....
i don't know how long the two of you have been together but i can assure you that, if you want to remain together, you'll both go through a lot of trial and errors and forgiving and forgetting... it's in the nature of things!
so, to answer your question about what you should do, here is what i suggest:
1. talk to her openly until she answers in the same way
2. take your time to consume your feelings and emotions before making any decision concerning your relationship
3. do not, by any means, try to avenge on her, because it will turn the two of you into enemies.
well, these are mere guidelines, I'm sure you know best what to do next...
best of luck. :)
2006-09-06 16:41:35 · answer #2 · answered by by_request2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women will never truly understand the type of pain you get when that happens.
It's truly immobilizing...
Anyway, she sounds really unintelligent. I would definitely not even want to be around someone like that.
2006-09-06 17:14:55 · answer #3 · answered by RED MIST! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shure i know it herts a lot ... but i suppose you could knee her there too ? could well loose her
text her saying she could make it up with something special ?
i think that would work to your satisfaction
2006-09-06 16:41:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the police. That is battery and she will go to jail.
2006-09-06 16:31:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
My advice Hit her back then call the cops. BUT HIT HER BACK cause if you don;t and you do get back together with her she'll do it again.
2006-09-06 16:40:23 · answer #6 · answered by Michaelle T 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Call the police and file assault (not sexual assault) on her. Then forget she ever existed.
2006-09-06 16:31:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She's a loser, stay the hell away from her. I don't see anything funny about it.
2006-09-06 16:31:58 · answer #8 · answered by Special Ethel 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she clearly doesn't understand what it means to be hit their. you either need to explain it to her, or leave her. but DON'T rape her.
2006-09-06 16:32:29 · answer #9 · answered by outbaksean 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should slap her in the titty and then say your sorry.
2006-09-06 16:31:50 · answer #10 · answered by Q~T 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋