Me and my girlfriend, we where hugging and kissing, and then suddenly she just kneed me in the crotch!!!. She just stood there laughing while I was on the floor. Then when I finally got up, still in shock, she started saying how sorry she was, but still giggling, and I could swear she got sexually aroused by what she did. I just left without saying a word.
How could she done that to me, after all we went through together. I had no idea she could be a sex offender. And now she is constantly sending me messages to my mobile phone saying she is sorry, but I don’t think she is, and even if she was, nothing could be the same again. How about if I rape her and then say I am sorry, some things just have no turning back.
What do you think I should do?
2006-09-06 09:23:31 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
End it Now
2006-09-06 09:26:55 · answer #1 · answered by ramblin guy 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Leave her. At this point I would say that you don't even owe her an explaination. Just don't talk to her again. Don't answer her calls, don't return her calls and don't even look at her if you see her around town. If she approaches you, just tell her you are no longer interested and to go away. If she continues to harass you, you always have the option of complaining to the police and getting a restraining order.
No, I don't believe she is sorry. If she was, she wouldn't have been laughing at you. This is not a behavior that will change, it will only get worse if you were to stay with her. She gets a thrill out of hurting you. That is not a situation you want to be in.
You are right, that some things have no turnng back. This is definitely one of them. You are also right that nothing could be the same again. How could you possible trust her after this? Do you want to be in a relationship where you always have to be thinking about protecting yourself?
What should you do? Leave her!
2006-09-06 09:32:47 · answer #2 · answered by Gypsy Girl 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Getting raped & getting kneed in the crotch are both awful but certainly not the same. Rape is a violation....getting kneed is a physical assult.
Your girlfriend may have some issue that you need to talk about if you still want her to be your girlfriend. Otherwise...move on.
2006-09-06 09:28:56 · answer #3 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
WHAT??? ......Talk to her and tell her how awful this made you feel. Tell her that you felt disrespected, assaulted, abused and degraded! Explain to her that by doing that everything has changed in the way you feel about her, because you NEVER expected anything like that. Ask how she would feel if you punched her real hard on her breast and then laughed your head off while she cried!! Tell her that you don't know how this will affect your relationship in the long run, but to give you time to digest it and NOT..to call you until you decide to call her......If YOU...ever feel like doing it! YOU.. are right for feeling the way you do.. that was NOT a joke.. that was very rude and disrespectful! ...... Good Luck!
2006-09-06 09:34:22 · answer #4 · answered by ..Luna.. *.. ) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all she did not rape u second of all of u even thought that maybe she is sorry and want to be with u even tho i never herd of getting kneed on that place when u are going out but i think if u think that things will not work out then ya u know what to do
2006-09-06 09:42:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have u asked her why she done this to you? as it seems a little weired to just do this whilst you were kissing and cuddling. Have u done something wrong that could have made her want to do this to get u back?
If there was no reason to her doing this then shes weired especially if she was turned on by this. How long have u been with her? do u know her truly? if not be aware, but im sure there isnt anything to worry about. Talk to her about it.
2006-09-06 09:29:55 · answer #6 · answered by rach_b_2003 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I once did the same thing it was SO funny.... well actually the guy was a total jerk! But i kept on laughing all week long. Yeah.... we broke up that same day..... but maby she is really sorry, give her another chance, talk to her, oh and hope you are ok! :)
2006-09-06 12:05:12 · answer #7 · answered by KC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not saying you should hit her, but self-defense is excusable in circumstances like that. Don't buy into that garbage women have convinced men that it is wrong to defend yourself even if they assaulting you.
I would definitely not be with a girl like that.
2006-09-06 11:51:06 · answer #8 · answered by Alucard 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump her, or talk to her, tell her if you guys want to be together then she has to not do that. Think about if you guys stay together then she might keep doing that. The best way is break up.
2006-09-06 09:35:57 · answer #9 · answered by Leslie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What she did to you was wrong but don't rape her or you'll go to juvenile. What she did to you won't get her in jail. Just dump her-she's a freak who needs serious help!
2006-09-06 09:37:50 · answer #10 · answered by Prissy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋