Hi! I'm new to this and I was wondering if a nice woman can help me? I'm currently married and I'm happy but lately I've been having dreams about being "with" other women. Don't get me wrong...I like being intimate with my husband but I've found that these thoughts kind of turn me on. Would a woman be willing to email me and explain what it's really like to be with another woman? I don't want to cheat on my husband...I just want to know what it's like instead of go by what my dreams tell me. Oh yeah, if you are reading this and are offended because you think this is gross or perverted, please don't respond. Check out the category this is posted in and if it doesn't interest you, please leave. To all of you who are interested in my question, thanks for taking the time to read it. I hope there's someone out there who can help me.
2006-09-06 09:14:10 · 12 answers · asked by Married but Curious 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I could tell you to privately rent some lesbian porn films, but in my opinion these flicks are NOTHING to what really happens between two women who truly love each other. It is true that women really know their bodies. If you do any masturbation at all and enjoy it, imagine having another woman helping you with it. Most of the kissing, touching is similar to what your husband may do, but I believe a woman does it softer, with more sensitivity and more passion. Of course there are some men who are very good lovers, who can think of more than just their own pleasure. It's still my opinion that a woman is even more sensitive and far more intuitive to another woman's body and pleasure. Dreams are harmless and as long as you don't act on them you protect your commitment. Perhaps, lesbian novels will come closer to showing you the experience. Good luck.
2006-09-06 14:58:49 · answer #1 · answered by truckinotter 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What can I say...being with a woman is absolutely the best and I WOUldnt have it any other way. I am a soft stud and I can tell you from my point of you that being with a woman is sensual, very intimate and sexy, passionate, exotic and the best feeling of warmth that you could possibly imagine. yOU exceed having an orgasism and your body just skips to a place even beyond pure bliss. Just kissing her will get you there and make you wanna do things that you never thought that you would do. And trust, when you feel in between her legs, so warm and throbbing..............Let me stop..I am gettin to excited. Just try it. However, being as though you are married, you should openly discuss your feelings and thoughts with your husband..Try not to keep secrets okay..
2006-09-07 05:21:37 · answer #2 · answered by cutesoftdom 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe that dream is telling you something. There may be some thing before that act which you were rewarding. Think back, if you still can.
Dreams also are safe ways of going where you wouldn't normally go. I've fought wars or eaten food or said things I wouldn't have wanted to do in real life. Again, there may be something associated to what you saw or did that has more bearing on what needs to be discovered than what you think. You experienced the result, what was the cause?
2006-09-06 16:24:09 · answer #3 · answered by Rabbit 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you're having vivid, realistic sex dreams about women, what it feels like in your dreams is basically the reality to it. At least that's how it has been for me with having dreams about men. What you experience in your dreams sexually is surprisingly accurate.
Just because you are having sex dreams about women doesn't neccessarily mean you are lesbian, or even bisexual. I'm 100% definitely gay and I've had a sex dream or two about women in the past. If you have these dreams and you wake up feeling interested and curious about a real life girl on girl experience, then there may be something more there.
2006-09-06 16:47:33 · answer #4 · answered by palebeachbum 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can't tell you what its like, I am a man and I read all the questions.
my experience with women is great, I love it and wouldn't want to change it for nothing. On the other hand, I understand your question and you are having dreams.
The only way you are going to know is to just do it, but the sad thing about it is that there wont be any penetration, just rubbing, kissing and touching each other (with fingers), until someone introduce you to a toy or two.
Toys are temporary fun, after its all over, (if you are alone with your toys), you can't reach up and hold anyone or talk to anyone.
So, get to your husband, talk to him about your wanting to be freaked out sexually (you want your gut busted) and together you go out and get those toys and return to your bed room and get nasty, sweaty nasty, then go and shower, oh, and if you want, get freaky in the shower too. After all that sex, you want to be able to know that he was there, two days later.
your body will yearn for that feeling again and again. Also keep in mind that your husband will be nothing like me (Sorry).
You got to live your life, to where you can look back, thinking of past times and say to yourself, "dam that was the good times"
Keep in mind, Adam was made for Eve, not Steve and Eve was made for Adam, not the Madam
2006-09-06 17:17:21 · answer #5 · answered by WOODSAK 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Everyone experience is differant....we can tell you allday what it's like but only you can answer ur own question...grant it I'm not tellin you to cheat on ur husband but there must be some sort of attraction if ur havin these dreams or thoughts. I think ur curiosity is gettin the best of you.....and the reason why is because it's taboo....think about it.
2006-09-06 17:10:14 · answer #6 · answered by shanasterms 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course physically it's VERY different but in a wonderful way. What I have found is that it is much more emotional than it is with a man. The emotions run deep and its so passionate. I will never be with a man again. EVER!
2006-09-06 16:40:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to explain what it's like...in the simplest terms I can put it - it's erotic...it's exciting...it's sensual...for me it's very different than being with a man. I love it, but I love being with men too, it's just "different."
Have you expressed your fantasies to your husband? Chances are he'd (as MOST men) would love the idea of watching you with another woman. You can set rules for the threesome if you feel you need to - for instance, he can watch but only touch YOU...don't feel guilty for what you're feeling, I think lots of people have these desires, but very few admit to them..
Take care, Marilyn
2006-09-06 16:22:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I always wondered about it too. I have decided that one of these days I'm gonna try it but for now just looking and building up the courage....
2006-09-06 17:05:36 · answer #9 · answered by arlene j 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For me, it was waaay better in real life than my dreams. I was so happy I did it.
2006-09-06 21:19:11 · answer #10 · answered by theobromo77 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋