Ok soo.. lison to meeh if mi parents are getting a divorce & mi mom is prenate with her 2ed child & it's mi dads & im affrade mi sister or brother isnt going to kno mi dad... WHAT AM i GOiNG TO DO?!?!HELP!!(( i'v tryed too work it out with them for years.. but they just.. HATE EACHOTHER!! i love mi dad....&mi mom!... but sometimes.. EHHHH!!
2006-09-06 09:09:13 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
OK.. since most of yooh cant under stand what im saying.. this is what i mean... when i say mi = ME & when i say meeh =ME and yooh =YOU ok?? this is just got i saw things.. not in school but out of it lol.. sillys! & no im not 10 years old!
so.. yeah
2006-09-06 09:14:31 · update #1
XXXXXXXXX Divorce doesn't mean your dad won't be your dad anymore. Or the babys dad. A divorce only means he won't be your moms husband anymore. Keep in touch with him and bring your sibling when it's born to spend time with your dad. Good luck hun
2006-09-06 09:13:40 · answer #1 · answered by asoldierswife 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It should not be your problem. Let them figure it out on their own. besides, you're still going to see your dad...right? Just make sure the baby does too. You will still have a good relationship with both your mom and dad. It's just better for you and the baby, if they are apart. If they hate eachother, and stay together, you will be emotionally scarred. If they separate, they can become friends on a different level, although it might take them a while to come to that point if they hate eachother right now.
2006-09-06 09:14:55 · answer #2 · answered by Curiousmom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok so I am listening to you. Your parents are getting a divorce and your mom is pregnant with her 2nd child. It is your dad's. You are afraid that your new sister of brother isn't goint to know your dad. There is really not much you can do. You have to let them work this all out on their own. Just let them know that you love them both and tell them that you scared you won't be able to see your dad and that the baby will never even know him.
2006-09-06 09:15:13 · answer #3 · answered by Suesan W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately there isn't anything you can do but be a good sister to your soon to be sibling. It is best sometime if parents divorce so that they can be happy rather than raise you in a family that is full of hate and anger all the time. Hopefully their divorce decree will include child support and child visitation rights for both your and your soon to be sibling so that each of you continues to always know both your parents.
2006-09-06 09:15:23 · answer #4 · answered by rkrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not your responsibility to keep your parents together. It is better for children to not be raised in a hostile environment, especially if they are yelling and screaming all of the time. They should find love and be able to show their children what a caring and loving relationship looks like. Sometimes they just can not do it when they are together. A relationship between children and non-custodial parent will be established during visitation and daily communication.
2006-09-06 09:36:52 · answer #5 · answered by Dylansmom 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
mom and dad may well be so unpredictable, yet so predictable on an identical time...once you're in this concern, you be attentive to precisely what i'm conversing approximately. basically frivolously tell them over some thing like a kinfolk dinner. yet first, make specific that your relationship journey will final. in case your mom and dad do no longer finally end up liking this concern, they might get labored up over some thing that did no longer proceed to take place. you will experience whilst the time is sturdy to tell your mom and dad. do no longer make it right into a extensive deal, or they are going to too.
2016-10-14 09:38:50 · answer #6 · answered by quinteros 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing you can do. That is between your mom and dad and they have to work out how they are gonna play parts in your sister and brothers lives. You can and should let them know how you feel about it though.
2006-09-06 09:23:59 · answer #7 · answered by zerokool 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. stay in school.. and learn how to write.. it's very important.
2. there's nothing you can do
3. if your mom is pregnant, obviously they don't hate each other that much... the baby did not happen by miracle..
4. enjoy your youth .. you're only a child once.. let your parents do the thinking....
2006-09-06 09:15:37 · answer #8 · answered by Lyne B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My parents get into fights and it sometimes seem like they hate eachother, but they don't. They just disaggree with eachother but they still love eachother. Thats how it is with most parents. So my advice is, just try to do what they ask of you which will help them NOT fight. Good luck.
2006-09-06 09:13:31 · answer #9 · answered by goldenat4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you cant do nothing its up to your parents. The only thing you can do is when your brother or sister is born always talk to him/her about your father. And when youor father wants to see him always be there so you dad can be with him/her.
2006-09-06 09:14:08 · answer #10 · answered by Happy Mommy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋