Why do people feel the need too comment about you if you are overweight?

Question

I have been a tall, thick girl all my life and it seems that just about everyday someone feels the need to make a comment about me. I just dont understand, I am pretty I have a great job a wonderful boyfriend and I'm happy. But whenever I'm alone shopping, getting my nails done I have to overhear people make comments or just stare at me. I am not a huge girl, just thick. So I need to ask anyone who is currently thick, fat obese whatever you want to call it, do you have to endure the same thing? And on the other hand if your the jerk who needs to make a comment for whatever reason what is your thought process about needing to make a comment about someone weight and or looks. I would like some feedback and like has been said before "If you have nothing nice to say then keep your ******* mouth shut!"

Answer 1

It upsets me to hear this. I'm really sorry you have to endure the ignorance and cruelty of people who have nothing better to do than focus on other people instead of themselves. None of these people are perfect and none of them have the right to judge anyone but themselves. They don't realise the damage they are doing, by making these sorts of comments, nor do they care, because they are animals with no feelings and no soul. Ignore them or if you are feeling brave, make a smart comment back. My friend's cousin died of Anorexia because of idiots like that, now whenever people call my friend fat, she tells them just what she thinks of them and about her cousin. After that, they usually go quiet and walk away. People that judge others and make nasty comments are nothing more than heartless cowards, they are lowlife scum and are really not worth your precious time. Stay strong and don't let them bring you down. Take care : )

Answer 2

some people have no lives and like to talk about people. especially if they're anerexic skinny! dont obsess about your weight. if you feel bad and insecure about your weight do NOT put yourself on a strict diet. just workout 3 times a day, keep a balanced diet and everything will be okay.
but then again you have no need to do this because you're just 'thick'. dont worry about peoples stupid comments because you're got a great life and you look great no matter what!

good luck !! ♥

Answer 3

Hey hun. I know this happens to everyone who is not a damn f*ckn size 0. Apparently society has a way of deciding how people should look and how much they should weigh. I believe that as long as you are happy with yourself and love and embrace your figure, nothing else shold matter. I personally am thick and tall. I have realized that we are only human and we can't please everyone. You gotta love yoourself before anyone else does. So i dont give a f*ck what anyone else thinks about my body, it's mine and I am the one that has to live with it day in and day out. So embrace your beautigul full figure hun! :D

Answer 4

yes that has happened to me b4, the pppl who are staring and making comments are probably jelouus of u because they want 2 happy like you, meanwile they are very self conchiss on how skinny they are and and have the ugre 2 make fun of some 1 else just so they feel good.

Answer 5

im not but i still know the answer.
insecurity. for some reason it makes people feel better when theyre rude to someone else.
i dont get it

Answer 6

we all come in differant shapes and sizes, thats ok, but being really obese is a killer, and seems to me people talk about people if they are shor tall skinny heavy.

Answer 7

I really don't know, cause I do get alot of comments.

Answer 8

because there not happy with themselves.