okay see when my bf is gone all day his friend Chris calls to talk to me just to chat r what not. but its like 4hours r so are sometimes less r sometimes more well lastnite he ask me how would i like it if he called and talked to one of my friends like that til he got home everyday and i told him i wouldnt like it.. well i need to know how to tell chris that i cant talk to him but i dont wnt to hurt his feels r make anything upset him PLS HELP ME, also the reason my bf got so mad at him was the other nite when i got off the phone he asked him if he could share me. my bf acted like he didnt hear him and then he kep on sayin things like dirty and yeah thats why i want to stop talkin to him and its not rite for my bf to have to feel the way he dose about this PLS HELP ME I NEED YOUR HELP SO BAD!!!!
2006-09-06 08:53:47 · 5 answers · asked by tylers baby girl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Thanks to all of u but its so sad me and him have been friends for a year and he is tryin to talk to me on yahoo and im not typeing back i dont want to say anything gosh i feel like i being mean about the whole thing!! =(
2006-09-06 10:12:58 · update #1
"Chris, I am sorry for leading you on, but I did not realize I was doing so, or that you were hoping for such, because I thought you understood how truly devoted to [your boyfriend's name] I really am. However, now that I know what you are hoping for, it really creeps me out. You are a great guy, but you need to find a woman of your own, and I will never be that woman. So please, do not call again."
Simply read that to him every time he calls. He will soon get the picture.
2006-09-06 09:26:43 · answer #1 · answered by eric l 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Chris knows you have a boyfriend and should have enough respect for you not to cause problems.
2006-09-06 16:20:24 · answer #2 · answered by gary t 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
either stop talking to chris so much or don't tell your b/f your talking to him just make sure your off the phone before he gets home.
2006-09-06 15:59:55 · answer #3 · answered by smurfette_ftwayne 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi!!!
You shouldn't have to talk to anybody you don't want or feel comfortable with. Tell your boyfriend what his friend is doing and let your boyfriend handle if it is his friend.
2006-09-06 16:42:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, stop feeling bad for telling somebody what you want.
If you're old enough to have a boyfriend, you're old enough to express your wishes and require people abide by them.
2006-09-06 15:57:19 · answer #5 · answered by Pam 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋