I live with my husband in his house for 3 years now he wants me out. I have a small child who attends school. I need to stay because I have no where to go and I feel my child need a stable place to sleep especially that she attends school. I am looking for some place but I need to save money. to move. can he put me out just like that or do i have any rights
2006-09-06 08:46:57 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You have rights to the home by marriage and by living residence. Doesn't matter if he bought the home. You have a right to stay there, especially for the welfare of the child. It isn't "his" home anymore once he married you and you became residence of the home. The home is now "community property" and in court that will be discussed as to how you and lawyers work out the settlement of property. Some people will negosiate: ex: I get the car as you get he house or we both sell the house and split differ cost.
A friend of ours did that since he caught his now ex wife cheating with someone half her age. He made it to wear she owed him I believe 45% of proceds from the Ranch estate. She didn't have $90,000 and she had to sell the Ranch to be able to come up with it.
I do recommend that you do save money and contact relatives.
As a side note, contact lawyer to set up arrangements. You are entitled to half and can ask to receive half the appraised price of the home in divorce settlement.
I would also file child support.
Welfare also helps in housing and community action programs. Can contact local women's shelter for information.
(Have to check with your state since every state has it's own laws pertaining to this).
2006-09-06 09:00:13 · answer #1 · answered by Mutchkin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have your mail being delivered to this address he actually has to go through an eviction process. I had a bf staying with me for a short time -- even though we had domestic problems etc the police said that since he was claiming the address as his "home" address I had to go through the eviction process -- which can take months. Mine left voluntarily but in your case you can file appeals and all kinds of good stuff until you have the money saved to move. If you are legally (or even common law)married 1/2 of that house is yours anyway.
2006-09-06 08:53:35 · answer #2 · answered by Bummed 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im very sorry to hearken to this. i replaced into in a wedding ceremony like that when. i did not even now the thanks to emphasise because he didn't wish me to go away the homestead. were divored and im a lot happier. What you want to do is get a criminal specialist. Ever time he comes over have a tape recorder on your pocket to record each thing he says. If he tretens you call the law enforcement officials. If want be get a restraining order. A choose can't ingnore all that. No its no longer incorrect so that you'll favor to do stuff outdoors of the homestead. i wish that helps and sturdy success.
2016-11-25 00:54:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The police won't even make you leave your home. If you have established a residence there, they will not just make you move out. My concern is that you shouldn't want to stay there. It could become a violent or emotionally abusive and that is not good for your children either. I wish you the best and hope that you make the best decision for your children.
It's not a good thing to be without a stable home, but not good to be in a home that is volatile either.
2006-09-06 09:06:23 · answer #4 · answered by ushouldnoidontplay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no if you have been living there for over 30 days then he has to go to the courts and evict you!!! Don't let that man think he can just put you out. What I would do is keep my distance from him sleep in my child's room until I can get us out. You don't have any family??? Even someone you really don't want to bother?? I wouldn't want to stay no where I wasn't welcome but you do have a child!!!
2006-09-06 08:51:45 · answer #5 · answered by oneluv804 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, you have rights. One right is to get a lawyer. Depending on what state you live in you can go to a shelter for women/children until you find a place to stay especially if he really kicks you out. Get some legal counsel now.
2006-09-06 08:50:12 · answer #6 · answered by kitcat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you have rights, living with someone, they cannot make you move out any faster than a landlord can evict you. Get a lawyer, find out what your rights are exactly. Make sure you get child and, if you can, spousal support from this jerk when you do go. You don't deserve to be treated like this.
2006-09-06 08:58:47 · answer #7 · answered by Cyndi Storm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you do have rights,but it would be stupid to stay. if he has been trying to put you out that long, you have had time to save and/or anything else you wanted to do. you thought you could make hem want you to stay.you have put yourself in a bad position. And even worse you have put your self and child in danger. You are also teaching her to bag a man to take care of her and not teaching her to take care of herself.
2006-09-06 09:17:14 · answer #8 · answered by dillydoll727 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as you been living there for more then 90 days he can't put you out. just make sure when he leaves you have it all, well atleast enough to take care of you and the kids until you can stand on your own
2006-09-08 13:50:02 · answer #9 · answered by coreytony0311 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LMAO.
You are typical. Bring a kid into this world from some one night fling most likely. Glob onto some sucker. Sucker figures out you're a HO and boots ya. Now, you want him to pay for your one night fling with some guy, black probably, you met at a strip club, most likely.
TYPICAL.
2006-09-06 08:50:48 · answer #10 · answered by InternetPosterChild 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋