why is it that everytime I'm ready to move on I start missing him, like right now I wanna call him so bad but I gotta be strong for myself. I know I don't love him but I really care about him, I guess I feel this way about him because he was my 1st.
2006-09-06 07:51:08 · 11 answers · asked by brownsuga 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Let It Go......Don't Call. It's Just Hard.
2006-09-06 07:53:34 · answer #1 · answered by Summer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all..realize that it's OK. you miss him..of course!! you cared about him. u gave up your innocence..to him because u thought he was special. so if something happened that was bad, of COURSE ur gonna be sad. it's ok.
what u need to do, is be strong in Knowing and Understanding yourself. You are a Wonderful, Kind, Sensitive, and Loving person. to miss someone, even if he treated u badly, or left you.... you still have good feelings towards him? do u know, that is actually strength..the strength of someone who CARES. and u need to be PROUD of yourself, first off. now, after you realize how Awesome u are...u gotta have standards. for yourself, and for your future partner. if u continue working on yourself, to be a Good, Positive, Happy, Healthy person who is good to others, and tries your best to be a good person in general...WHY wouldn't u deserve the same from your partner? so have expectations from how u are treated by others... while making sure u treat others w/ respect, u have complete right to expect the same back. (if u didn't treat others well, u can hardly expect it back.). there's nothing wrong with WANTING someone who will treat you RIGHT! therefore, let this guy go.. not because u didn't care about him, not because he didn't care about you..but because he wasn't RIGHT for you. he wasn't good enough to do what is good for you, and by you. it's ok, mistakes will happen, u will regret things. but don't dwell on it. LEARN from it, and make yourself a better, stronger person. realize your worth, and you will find someone who is worthy of you as well! :) it's ok, life always goes on. but u have a choice in making it better, or keeping it stagnant and feeling bad about yourself. if u concentrate on Positivity, Healthiness, and Happines, and keep those kinds of people around you, u will be able to withstand the Negativity that is in this world. good luck~
2006-09-06 15:01:17 · answer #2 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then it is a form of love and it will take some time to get over the missing them feeling. It eventually happens just depends on how determined and strong willed you are
2006-09-06 14:55:17 · answer #3 · answered by rodsix5 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u know what's crazi, I'm feeling the exact same way so I know what you're going through. But it sounds like u do still love him but ur just not in love with him. You can't move on because u still love him, face it.
2006-09-06 14:56:45 · answer #4 · answered by CANDEE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably do still love him. But just remember, addicts may want the drug, but that doesn't mean it's good for them. Keep being strong. It will take time for the feelings to fade.
2006-09-06 14:54:40 · answer #5 · answered by MornGloryHM 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time is a good healer. Just say to yourself it will pass. Keep you mind busy. Don't give in you deserve better!!Good Luck!
2006-09-06 14:58:31 · answer #6 · answered by aimstir31 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow that is exactly how i used to feel when me and my first broke up! you probably feel that way because you came to love him very much but sooner or later you'll move on TRUST ME
2006-09-06 14:56:10 · answer #7 · answered by sea 26 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because ur right u care a lot about him. and moving on is really hard.
2006-09-06 14:54:01 · answer #8 · answered by Deni T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
been there am doing that just hang in there crying is okay i do it everyday feel free to contact me on my 360 page or by email if you need more help
2006-09-06 14:53:21 · answer #9 · answered by sunshine girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't give him the satisfaction , if he cares about you he will call you, and if he doesn't hes not worth it.
2006-09-06 14:53:32 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋