i have a half sister, who has always envied me and keep drama going over the last 10 years, now she is going to all of my boyfriends shows at clubs, I was not there the first show and he told me oh your sister was there and we all had a blast, and I told him i feel betrayed. so i went to the next show and she was there shaking her azz in front of my man and he was looking like he liked it. but he insist that he would never do that to me. But then why the sex faces? and she doesnt speak to me at all. what do you think i should do?
2006-09-06 07:29:58 · 11 answers · asked by tinamjax 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well, the man definitely needs to be cussed out. He hasn't 'technically' done anything wrong, but he needs to know he is walking a fine line straight to he** if he keeps his actions up.
You half sister needs her butt beat- seriously. It doesn't matter she is related- she apparently doesn't care. But make sure, if you go at her, that you really can beat her down. Otherwise, it will only get worse. Be ready for the fall-out. Once you whoop her, family will likely get involved. And make sure she knows it is not about this man. It is her behaviour in general, over the years, that has climaxed at this.
2006-09-06 07:37:33 · answer #1 · answered by Queen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From your way of expressing things you sound like a deeply sensitive person. This situation must be causing you a lot of disappointment.
You need to demonstrate clearly where you draw the line with your sister while continuing to maintain that everpresent dignity that I sense you have.
Can I suggest this: attend a performance by your boyfriend (is he in an orchestra?) and when your sister provokes you, approach her and smear dog poop over her head and shoulders.
Please let us know how you get on.
2006-09-06 14:35:20 · answer #2 · answered by Pastor Sauce 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you and your sister are obviously a mess without this guy's help. envy with siblings is inevitable. and you can't trust this guy, because any man with honor would not hang out with your sister and then tell you how fun it was. and your sister would not act this way if she had an ounce of self-respect, as far as the dancing thing--he would do that to you, he did like it. she doesn't speak to you because she knows she is doing you wrong. you and your sister need some professional help to mediate your issues outside this one, and this guy has got to go. she's family, you've got to give it a shot.
2006-09-06 14:39:08 · answer #3 · answered by steelypen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ask her if she wanted to get with him. And if she said yes then say. "He's off limits" and if she tries to get smart cuss her butt out. Don't be afraid to approach her. Oh my she was shaking her azz in front of him i would of had to stop that.
2006-09-06 14:44:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell her that it makes you feel uncomfortable when she does that around your man. Tell her if she wants to go to the shows, she can go with you. If I was you I would also tell my man to stay away from her. If he doesn't listen, then he's not worth it.
2006-09-06 14:36:45 · answer #5 · answered by rachelly22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of the sister and tell your man to keep away from her. She's trying to steal him away from you.
2006-09-06 14:40:49 · answer #6 · answered by Beth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to knock it off, you know what she's doing & you aren't 12 anymore, then tell the boyfriend that you trust him, but want to make sure he knows she is off limits....
2006-09-06 14:37:24 · answer #7 · answered by daj11551 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i believe its called a menage-a-trois.
2006-09-06 14:32:50 · answer #8 · answered by blud34 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should put the bytch in her place and him to..
2006-09-06 14:31:33 · answer #9 · answered by Queen D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
slap her
2006-09-06 14:31:25 · answer #10 · answered by poporjay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋