he says he will sign the papers but he won't file them... he wants me too what should i do ?
2006-09-06 07:15:46 · 19 answers · asked by from_the_heart_1210 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
you should come holler at me....write back
2006-09-06 07:21:01 · answer #1 · answered by joe p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You File Them. Get Help From An Attorney.
2006-09-06 14:22:16 · answer #2 · answered by Summer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You file First! I've always heard that gives you the upper hand! He is just doing that so he doesn't have to take the responsibility of the one that"filed".He is only trying to manipulate you! Don't let him!! He left you so you file abandonment. That can be your grounds for divorce!
2006-09-06 15:08:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you waiting for? He is playing games with you to see if he still has you hooked, and apparently he does. Go file the papers and move on with your life. There is no moving back, only moving forward.
2006-09-06 14:38:43 · answer #4 · answered by Queen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just file the damm papers n get things over with. Am sure u have gone tru enough hurt already.
goodluck!
2006-09-06 14:25:13 · answer #5 · answered by Miss-Kenya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
File for divorce .. don't wait for him to do it and move forward with your life.
Hugs from a Loving Mom to a Brilliant, as well as beautiful 8 year old Jared and Our Angel, Zachary (taken to soon but who will always remain in our heart) ~ Mel
2006-09-06 14:18:28 · answer #6 · answered by jaredsmommy2004 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
File for divorce. He just doesn't want to pay court costs. Talk to a lawyer.
2006-09-06 14:30:33 · answer #7 · answered by tpurtygrl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You file. Get on with your life.
2006-09-06 14:36:47 · answer #8 · answered by Pencil 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call a lawyer and file yourself. He jsut doens't want to spend the money! So make sure you get what you are due out of the settlement
2006-09-06 14:24:03 · answer #9 · answered by KB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
File. The jerk abandoned you and in mostly all states, that is grounds for divorce and custody.
GL and best wishes.
2006-09-06 14:21:34 · answer #10 · answered by Encyclopedia Allie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he won't file them, contact an attorney. They can help you.
If he still won't file them, you should. Just file under "irreconcilible differences."
2006-09-06 14:20:07 · answer #11 · answered by nowimrelaxedicantbesure 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋