My EX broke up with me two months ago after the long-term relationship but both of us will see one another at the wedding coming up soon. It will be a very difficult day. I have taken the steps to move on but I'm afraid that this wedding will set me back to day one after the break up and I don't want to go through the same emotions again. How should I approach this day and is it worth talking to my EX if I am approached?
Thanks
2006-09-06 07:15:08 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Maybe you should rethink about going to the wedding ... or if you have to attend maybe have someone go with you for support during that situation.
Hugs from a Loving Mom to a Brilliant, as well as beautiful 8 year old Jared and Our Angel, Zachary (taken to soon but who will always remain in our heart) ~ Mel
2006-09-06 07:20:11 · answer #1 · answered by jaredsmommy2004 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can only imagine how difficult this will be for you. Unfortunately, wedding ceremonies tend to bring out all our emotions anyway. The best advice I can offer is to remain cordial, exercise self control, keep busy with other relatives/family members. I'm not saying blatantly avoid your ex, but it might be a good idea to avoid lingering in your ex's presence.
2006-09-06 14:19:50 · answer #2 · answered by *~*~*~~~His Angel~~~*~*~* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st of all u act like u have to have a discussion w/this chick.. u just keep ur distance, don't look her way, bring a date w/u if possible and when she approaches u say hi and tell her u dont' mean to rush off but i have to find my date... or leave right after the wedding is over if ur that uncomfortable
2006-09-06 14:22:10 · answer #3 · answered by Queen D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be polite. Don't offer information about your current life, and if he asks, answer very generally. Why are you so concerned and sure it will be "difficult"? Go and enjoy the wedding and hang around with those who make you happy. You control your own feelings and your destiny.
2006-09-06 14:20:00 · answer #4 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is that bad for you dont go!
2006-09-06 14:17:03 · answer #5 · answered by Keith C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋