do you give up on a matter when you can not deal with it because maybe you can not do it too good or you are not good at it? i unfortunately am like this when i am not good at sth i get sad and i say to myself oh you cant and i give up on that.
2006-09-06 07:05:56 · 14 answers · asked by star 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
I feel that a person should "Know thyself". If you are not so good at something--back off. Do your strong points. We can not be good at everything. If someone does not accept this--so be it--get over it. Leave the things that you are not strong in to other people.
2006-09-06 07:15:50 · answer #1 · answered by old_woman_84 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Carpe Diem! That means "Seize the Day!" You want to live your life so you have no regrets. So what if you make mistakes, or things aren't perfect. At least you can have the satisfaction that you tried. I nearly died a couple of years ago, and let me tell you, I sure don't see things the way I did before that! My motto now is "NO Regrets!" I have to admit, I am glad I almost died. I don't take things for granted anymore. Who knows what you might learn from trying, and even from failing. What's there to be afraid of anyway? As the old saying goes, "The only thing to fear is fear itself." The real losers are the ones who never try. Try seeing everything as a learning experience. Remember, you can do anything you put your mind to, maybe it won't turn out how you imagined it, but if you try, you are already a winner. Sounds like you might be a perfectionist, there are lots of books out there to help you get a new perspective. A trip to the library may be your best bet. Sorry if I sounded like a fortune cookie.
2006-09-06 14:20:58 · answer #2 · answered by EarthAngel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to sometimes do this when I was very young. I grew out of it when I was about 13. Part of that attitude is a symptom of chronic depression. Another part is lack of confidence, combined with being used to being good at most things. When you are used to doing things well, or things come easily, or you are a perfectionist, it is depressing to find things that you cannot do well or easily. The important thing is to remember that you always have to try and that you can never give up. That is the only way that you can grow.
2006-09-06 14:13:11 · answer #3 · answered by badkitty1969 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, I'm almost like you. I have 2 left feet and tone deaf. But I still try to sing and once in a long while I will dance with my husband. It's scarry, you think people are laughing at you, but you just have to go on, its like you do it and then say, "hey, that wasn't sooo bad". You have to listen to yourself, don't be afraid of what others might say/do. If it makes you feel good do it, even if you aren't that great and it takes more time, you will win in the end. Thats a great feeling...So yep, deal with it and give it your all, but only if it feels RIGHT to you... hope this helps..
2006-09-06 14:12:22 · answer #4 · answered by chowika 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
lately i ended up thinking it's all about CHOICES and being comfortable with the positive but also with the negative consequences your choice might involve. if u feel ok about giving up, then so be it. if u feel strong enough, go for it. either way at the end of the day u have to be satisfied with urself and with ur mistakes or successes. but, hey, what do i know? I'm young, i still i have a lot to learn :) ..... good luck!!!!!
2006-09-06 14:22:35 · answer #5 · answered by catharsis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should never give up!!!
nobody's perfect and u just can't be good at everything, this is part of life's challenges...u can be good at stuff by 2 ways:
1. u were born good at it
2. u tried it several times and u became good at it
so if ur just going to give up on stuff thinking that ur not good at it then u'll never be good at anything!! so just give it a try, and the more u do it, the better u'll become
GOOD LUCK
2006-09-06 14:09:51 · answer #6 · answered by ChEkNa . 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't give up on anything. That's not cool. You always need to try your hardest to get anything accomplished. If need help you could ask someone who knows more about the subject to help you. Once you accomplish want you feel like giving up on, your confidence will sky rocket, and you'll feel like you can conquer the world.
2006-09-06 14:12:54 · answer #7 · answered by baddest_ladybug 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the moment you give up YOU LOSE. there are things Im not good at but I still try them. I look at this way, its better to try then to sit on the sidelines and think gee i wonder what that feels like or wow thats amazing.
2006-09-06 14:07:30 · answer #8 · answered by wilowdreams 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, DON'T GIVE UP! THE SECOND YOU GIVE UP YOU LOSE.YOU HAVE TO DIG DEEP INTO YOURSELF AND TRY HARDER THAT IS THE ONLY WAY YOU CAN MAKE THINGS HAPPEN.YOU DON'T WANT TO BE A QUITTER. JUST HAVE A LITTLE FAITH IN YOURSELF.
2006-09-06 14:11:31 · answer #9 · answered by lisababyg ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you shouldn't give up keep trying until you get it right even when your frustrated just take a break and try again
2006-09-06 14:08:30 · answer #10 · answered by teresa d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋