I have never had a child or ever been pregnant but sometimes I have this overwhelming urge inside of me to become pregnant..... I am 21 years old. Is this normal?
2006-09-06 07:01:08 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
your bio-clock is telling you that it needs some thing to do before it's too late, how ever, if your not married I would see a OBGYN, maybe she will prescribe birth control pills that will slow down the urges to get pregnant.
go see a woman doctor, my opinion is that male obgyn's are out for a free peek and poke time unless you have one who really cares for your health not his.
2006-09-06 07:12:42 · answer #1 · answered by roger s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think anything is wrong with you. I am 21 going on 22 and have been with my husband for 5 years. We were married for two and I started having urges to have a family. Just seemed like the next step ya know. If its right for you then go ahead, Im happy as can be and so is he. If you have the urge but its not time for you yet, try getting a puppy or a pet to take care of, that should put it off a little. Hope that everything works out well for you!
2006-09-06 14:04:20 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you have an overwhelming urge to feel like puking all the time? Do you have an overwhelming urge to be fat? To have leg and back pains? To be tired and have to quit ur job? To not be able to eat or drink a million things that are dangerous for a baby? To have stretch marks all over ur body? To be overly emotional? To ..........be pregnant? Wut does that mean? It means you're gonna have a child and ur gonna have to take care of it 24/7 whether you have an urge or not
2006-09-06 14:29:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I felt the same way... Try to ignore it and have fun dating guys. Once you have kids, you will never be able to enter the dating life the same again. You have to look for a baby sitter and all. Don't get me wrong, if you are ready, have a baby if you can finacially support it and have someone to watch your bundle of joy. You DON'T have to settle on a guy and marry to have kids... that's the old way. 50% get bad divorce anyways.
2006-09-06 14:05:33 · answer #4 · answered by missy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is called your biological clock...it ticks louder at different times for different women...mine started screaming when I was 21.
But regardless unless you are in a situation to support a child then don't do it! Have patience and remember that you have plenty of time to make such a huge decision.
2006-09-06 14:04:05 · answer #5 · answered by paganmom 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Its perfectly normal.
Some women decide early on in life to have children, some decided to never have children.
My first came into the world in 2004. I was 20.
I'm now expecting my 4th child... and I'm 23!
2006-09-06 14:09:28 · answer #6 · answered by its_twins_2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people are different are have certain feeling. If you feel like your missing something in your life. You could be subconsciencely wanting a baby to fulfill the thing that's "missing" from your life. It couls just also be that your natural motherly instinct is revealing itself to you.
2006-09-06 14:43:23 · answer #7 · answered by Mello 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it can be normal properly u feel lonely or does wnt something to full ur time up or u think u ee children with mum and dads ur age gt kids and u feel y cnt i have chidren and it is mkeing u want hildren or probaly u have done nearly everythin in ur life that been clubbing and done everything and uu think a hild might amkeu feel happier they do but they caue stres as u gt older up 2 u shoana frm uk if u wanna chat abt anything i am here fr ux
2006-09-06 14:08:06 · answer #8 · answered by miss_attuide_mona_x 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
theres nothing wrong with you. just about everyone gets excited over the thought of having a child. Just when you decide to, make sure your absolutly ready and you know your mate is willing to take the responsibility too
2006-09-06 14:04:44 · answer #9 · answered by kangaroo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh yeah, it's definitely normal!! Just wait until you're married and ready to have a child! They're not all snuggles and love all the time- they're HARD WORK!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-06 15:44:58 · answer #10 · answered by JustMyOpinion 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋