Explain why you didn't want to and why you finally did. Best answer gets 10 points
2006-09-06 06:39:28 · 8 answers · asked by Trip S 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I almost did because I was desperate and alone. After I graduated from college, it was incredibly difficult for me to learn how to date. I didn't want to go to bars or clubs because those kinds of girls usually end up being very shadey or superficial, and wouldn't give me the time of day anyway. After thinking about femininsm and how men are suppose to treat women of today, it seemed like any way I would try to approach girls would be misunderstood as rude, so I was scared to even say hi to a girl. Some people said that if I was patient and waited, it would happen, but that only brought me more loneliness because girls never approached me as society claims they approach men when most don't uless your a superstar. So I just didn't know how to find a girlfriend.
I went on an online dating service and learned that most of those girls are unattractive both mentally and physically but desperate enough to make themselves seem desirable until you meet them in person. One of those girls I almost decided to sleep with because I was finally desired by a chick who wanted me, but she only wanted me because I was the only guy who was fairly attractive enough to actually do something sexual with her. So I asked myself, "Do I realy respect myself if I do this, when I know I could probably find a better girl altogether, and she wants me for superficial reasons anyway?" I dumped her and figured, I would never stoop that low again unless all the attractive and intelligent girls proved they just didn't want me, and I'd have to approach them all dramatically to let them know I like them to really see if any of them liked me or not.
All of a sudden, I got lots a phone numbers from many girls all attractive both mentally and phycially, then finally met my perfect wife.
2006-09-06 06:43:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
TWO TIMES
IN HIGH SCHOOL I was madly in love with a friends girlfriend. They broke up one day at school and I ended up at her house that night because she was having a party because her parents were away. I could not stop myself and we had one of the best nights of my life! But I did not want to do this ahead of time because she was my friends girlfriend.
The other time I can not even begin to explain...
2006-09-06 14:01:15 · answer #2 · answered by barter256 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I have, I slept with a woman who was a little overweight but not bad and her personality was as dull as a rock and we clashed. But it was just a piece and that is all it was. I saw her a few years ago and she is way overweight now and doesn't look like she takes care of herself. Thank God nothing worked out between us. I look back and I still cannot see y I had sex with her.
2006-09-06 13:44:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I am obviously not a man but that hasn't stopped me from having sex with women!! Yes, I have had sex with a women I really didn't want to but here is why---she was a big,scary dominatrix and she had a whip and a paddle--better just to do it and not be left with bruises!!!!
2006-09-06 13:52:48 · answer #4 · answered by angelofdreams19881 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
all the time
2006-09-06 13:42:19 · answer #5 · answered by scottyirish 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
cause it was my best friend girlfriend but i end up doing it cause we did have so much in comun
2006-09-06 13:44:06 · answer #6 · answered by thedeliciousone14 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, i even tried to "fake" i had come, she was drunk and i thought i could fool her, she realized and told me to keep going hahahahahaha,
2006-09-06 14:13:15 · answer #7 · answered by cehilo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, haven't been in that situation yet ..... lol
2006-09-06 13:42:43 · answer #8 · answered by RedCloud_1998 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋